Q: Birth plan?

Posted Friday, March 30, 2007 4:12 PM

Q: What should I include in my birth plan?

A: Start with this (ridiculously) comprehensive guide, which covers just about every aspect of childbirth. Feel free to cut out whatever doesn't apply!

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[  ] Full name:

[  ] Partner’s name:

[  ] Today’s date:

[  ] Due date: OR Induction date:

[  ] Doctor’s name:

[  ] Hospital name:

 
Please note that I:
[  ] Have group B strep
[  ] Am Rh incompatibility with baby
[  ] Have gestational diabetes

My delivery is planned as:
[  ] Vaginal
[  ] C-section
[  ] Water birth
[  ]  VBAC

 
I’d like…:

[  ] Partner:

[  ] Parents:

[  ] Other children:

[  ] Doula:

[  ] Other:

…present before AND/OR during labor

 
During labor, I’d like:
[  ] Music played (I will provide)
[  ] The lights dimmed
[  ] The room as quiet as possible
[  ] As few interruptions as possible
[  ] As few vaginal exams as possible
[  ] Hospital staff limited to my own doctor and nurses (no students, residents or interns present)
[  ] To wear my own clothes
[  ] To wear my contact lens the entire time
[  ] My partner to film AND/OR take pictures
[  ] My partner to be present the entire time
[  ] To stay hydrated with clear liquids and ice chips
[  ] To eat and drink as approved by my doctor

I’d like to spend the first stage of labor:
[  ] Standing up
[  ] Lying down
[  ] Walking around
[  ] In the shower
[  ] In the bathtub

I'm not interested in
[  ] An enema
[  ] Shaving of my pubic area
[  ] A urinary catheter
[  ] An IV, unless I’m dehydrated (and a heparin or saline lock IS/IS NOT ok)

I’d like fetal monitoring to be:
[  ] Continuous
[  ] Intermittent
[  ] Internal
[  ] External
[  ] Performed only by Doppler
[  ] Performed only if the baby is in distress

I’d like labor augmentation:
[  ] Performed only if baby is in distress
[  ] First attempted by natural methods such as nipple stimulation
[  ] Performed by membrane stripping
[  ] Performed with prostaglandin gel
[  ] Performed with Pitocin
[  ] Performed by stripping of the membrane
[  ] Never to include an artificial rupture of the membrane

For pain relief, I’d like to use:
[  ] Acupressure
[  ] Acupuncture
[  ] Breathing techniques
[  ] Cold therapy
[  ] Demerol
[  ] Distraction
[  ] Hot therapy
[  ] Hypnosis
[  ] Massage
[  ] Meditation
[  ] Reflexology
[  ] Standard epidural
[  ] TENS
[  ] Walking epidural
[  ] Nothing
[  ] Only what I request at the time
[  ] Whatever is suggested at the time

During delivery, I would like to:
[  ] Squat
[  ] Semi-reline
[  ] Lie on my side
[  ] Be on my hands and knees
[  ] Stand
[  ] Lean on my partner
[  ] Use people for leg support
[  ] Use foot pedals for support
[  ] Use a birth bar for support
[  ] Use a birthing stool
[  ] Be in a birthing tub
[  ] Be in the shower

I will bring a:
[  ] Birthing stool
[  ] Birthing chair
[  ] Squatting bar
[  ] Birthing tub 

As the baby is delivered, I would like to:
[  ] Push spontaneously
[  ] Push as directed
[  ] Push without time limits, as long as the baby and I are not at risk
[  ] Use a mirror to see the baby crown
[  ] Touch the head as it crowns
[  ] Let the epidural wear off while pushing
[  ] Have a full dose of epidural
[  ] Avoid forceps usage
[  ] Avoid vacuum extraction
[  ] Use whatever methods my doctor deems necessary
[  ] Help catch the baby
[  ] Let my partner catch the baby
[  ] Let my partner suction the baby 

I would like an episiotomy:
[  ] Used only after perineal massage, warm compresses and positioning
[  ] Rather than risk a tear
[  ] Not performed, even if it means risking a tear
[  ] Performed only as a last resort
[  ] Performed as my doctor deems necessary
[  ] Performed with local anesthesia
[  ] Performed by pressure, without local anesthesia
[  ] Followed by local anesthesia for the repair

Immediately after delivery, I would like:
[  ] My partner to cut the umbilical cord
[  ] The umbilical cord to be cut only after it stops pulsating
[  ] To bank the cord blood
[  ] To donate the cord blood
[  ] To deliver the placenta spontaneously and without assistance
[  ] To see the placenta before it is discarded
[  ] Not to be given Pitocin/oxytocin

If a C-section is necessary, I would like:
[  ] A second opinion
[  ] To make sure all other options have been exhausted
[  ] To stay conscious
[  ] My partner to remain with my the entire time
[  ] The screen lowered so I can watch baby come out
[  ] My hands left free so I can touch the baby
[  ] The surgery explained as it happens
[  ] An epidural for anesthesia
[  ] My partner to hold the baby as soon as possible
[  ] To breastfeed in the recovery room

I would like to hold baby:
[  ] Immediately after delivery
[  ] After suctioning
[  ] After weighing
[  ] After being wiped clean and swaddled
[  ] Before eye drops/ointment are given

I would like to breastfeed:
[  ] As soon as possible after delivery
[  ] Before eye drops/ointment are given
[  ] Later
[  ] Never

 
I’d like my family members(NAMES):

[  ] To join me and baby immediately after delivery
[  ] To join me and baby in the room later
[  ] Only to see baby in the nursery
[  ] To have unlimited visiting after birth

I’d like baby’s medical exam and procedures:
[  ] Given in my presence
[  ] Given only after we’ve bonded
[  ] Given in my partner’s presence
[  ] To include a heel stick for screening tests beyond the PKU
[  ]  To include a hearing screening test
[  ] To include a hepatitis B vaccine

Please don’t give baby:
[  ] Vitamin K
[  ] Antibiotic eye treatment
[  ] Sugar water
[  ] Formula
[  ] A pacifier

I’d like baby’s first bath given:
[  ] In my presence
[  ] In my partner’s presence
[  ] By me
[  ] By my partner

I’d like to feed baby:
[  ] Only with breastmilk
[  ] Only with formula
[  ] On demand
[  ] On schedule
[  ] With the help of a lactation specialist

I’d like baby to stay in my room:
[  ] All the time
[  ] During the day
[  ] Only when I’m awake
[  ] Only for feeding
[  ] Only when I request

I’d like my partner:
[  ] To have unlimited visiting
[  ] To sleep in my room

If we have a boy, circumcision should:
[  ] Be performed
[  ] Not be performed
[  ] Be performed later
[  ] Be performed with anesthesia
[  ] Be performed in the presence of me AND/OR my partner

As needed post-delivery, please give me:
[  ] Extra-strength acetaminophen
[  ] Percoset
[  ] Stool softener
[  ] Laxative 

After birth, I’d like to stay in the hospital:
[  ] As long as possible
[  ] As briefly as possible

If baby is not well, I’d like
[  ] My partner and I to accompany it to the NICU or another facility
[  ] To breastfeed or provide pumped breastmilk
[  ] To hold him or her whenever possible

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Comments

re: Q: Birth Plan?

This is awesome.  I am definitely sharing it with my birthing class tomorrow.  The nurse that teaches it seems to think they aren't very important, but I think there are one or two things on here that will definitely be crucial for some moms to be!

Posted by LeenRealtor    Monday, April 16, 2007 6:21 PM


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I am going to have my first child in January 2008. Before I read this page, I was mind boggled on what to do and and whatever else and this page answered just about all my questions for the day of delivery and their afterwards..

Posted by Jbauer    Friday, November 09, 2007 2:08 AM


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I love the template but I can't open it on my iMac... it will only let me see the last page

Posted by CoastieBrat    Saturday, July 26, 2008 3:07 PM


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OK girls..... its ok to have a birthplan in your HEAD....do not write it out and give it to your nurse in labor and delivery! I am a labor and delivery nurse and I promise....EVERY birth plan i have received ends up in an emergency c-section or forceps or vacuum due to extreme fetal distress!

Many first time parents think you need a birthing plan, but in realtity....just let your nurse and doctor know what you want and dont want as the day progresses. For example, when they say they want to break your water, just say "i don't want that right now." when they say lets give you some pitocin, jsut say " can we wait a bit."

trust me.... labor and delivery is not like going to to pick a hairstyle...its pretty delicate. sometimes, breaking your water and giving you pitocin is very much necessary in order to deliver  a healthy baby sooner than later!

and by the way, epidurals are awesome! No one is going to remember that you labored with no epidural! after the baby is born...all the attention will be on the baby. Plus, hospitals don't give awards or trophies for no epdiurals! GET it!

Posted by vero_nyka    Friday, November 21, 2008 10:42 PM


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This information is very helpful.  I haven't even considered some of the things on this list and I am due in February 09.  I have a little time, but not that much.

Posted by JDarden    Wednesday, December 03, 2008 7:11 AM


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There are a lot more reasons not to get an epidural than a "trophy"  I want to be able to move around and labor in the best position for my baby to descend.  Getting the epidural often leads to other unnecessary interventions and has a higher incident of c-section.

Posted by trinny    Sunday, December 28, 2008 3:49 AM


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Thanks Vero for the realistic view of what really happens during labor. This plan is great in theory, but as a 3rd time Mom, I can assure you that none of this will matter when the time comes to welcome your baby! I think it is important to tell the Dr./Nurse what you want during labor. But, what you think right now ( before the pain and business of labor ) could really be different on the day that you deliver. What ever you all decide, GOOD LUCK TO ALL during labor.

Posted by acooper1    Sunday, March 29, 2009 5:45 PM


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There are many reasons not to have an epidural, and every woman will have their own important/personal reason as to why she does or does not want to make that choice.  There is no right or wrong reason.  I am sure no one is looking for an award  or looking to make sure everyone remembers you labored without one....I think vero's comment was a bit exaggerated...  I think this plan is wonderful to review, but I do agree that you should be open to the process as you are in it and should be ready to communicate with your nurse & doctor.

Posted by cdavis81    Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:44 PM


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I'm also an L&D RN and it has been my experience as well when parents make birth plans...they are jinxed. Everything they didn't want to happen, ends up happening. From internal monitors, pitocin, epidurals etc. Just go in with an open mind and realize the most important thing is a healthy mom and baby. That's often what I have to remind my parents. In the end that is all that matters!

Posted by BabtRN08    Thursday, May 07, 2009 1:29 PM


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I wish L&D nurses were more open minded about the possibilities of women having choices.  It is too bad some women get "jinxed" but I think there is nothing wrong with a mom-to-be knowing what her ideal birth experience would be.  The comments on here are a reminder why so many women choose to birth at home - where they have choices.  Most women have healthy, uncomplicated pregnancies and should be treated as such.

Posted by smpeterson    Tuesday, June 02, 2009 7:11 PM


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Yuk..."vero", your response is exactly why I'm delivering with a midwife and not at a big hospital that doesn't care about your plan or wishes.  

Posted by Bekah5    Friday, June 05, 2009 12:48 AM


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I think that some L&D nurses think that all moms should have epidurals because then they don't have to do anything with the mom's. I have delivered twice without an epidural and will do it again. I also had a birth plan with my deliveries and was not "jinked" like you say. Also know that you can change anything on your birth plan at anytime it is not written in stone.

Posted by doulamomto3    Monday, June 08, 2009 11:47 AM


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Wow, I agree with Bekah5, except midwifes aren't certified in ohio(insurance won't pay), so we're all damned to an aggravating delivery with a doctor and nurses who think they are omniscient.

Posted by CaiteyBug    Monday, June 22, 2009 7:13 AM


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I would just like to say that I think a birth plan is a fantastic way to go.  I've heard of experiences where doctors and nurses just do what they think is best and don't ask the mother/mother-to-be what she wants.  And, vero_nyka  the reason I don't want an epidural is b/c of the effects it could have on the baby.  I don't want any drugs in my pure baby before he/she is even born.  That doesn't seem fair to the child.  If women have been able to give birth naturally for thousands of years, I think I can do it.  Natural birth isn't for everyone, but it's my goal.

Posted by Jecca07    Monday, June 29, 2009 5:38 AM


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