Q: Boosting baby-making odds?

Posted Thursday, August 16, 2007 9:33 PM

Q: My husband and I plan to try to get pregnant at the end of the summer. Are there any tricks to the trade that we should know? Are there any positions that increase your chances?

Dr. Pam Spurr: There are lots of things you can do to improve your chances of getting pregnant. First, I'd like you to consider your overall health by eating a nutritious diet full of leafy green vegetables and fresh fruit. You should certainly not be smoking or drinking (or at least drinking very little in the run-up to getting pregnant). Try to get proper sleep and de-stress your life wherever you can. Also, ask your health care provider about taking a folic acid supplement. Your husband should also take measures to be in good physical health as well as not letting his testicles get overheated in tight pants, exercise shorts, etc.

Since you don't mention any problems with fertility, I'd avoid getting over-concerned about taking your temperature, or using an ovulation-predictor kit when you're first trying. Instead, make love as frequently as you want, aiming for the center of your monthly cycle. Once your husband ejaculates you should roll onto your back (if you're not already in that position), tip your pelvis into the air, and lift your legs -- gravity will literally help his semen on their way. Think of the "bicycle" position where people cycle their legs in the air. Also ensure you have an orgasm so that the rhythmic contractions help the semen move up towards your cervix. Good luck!

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If women could "ensure" that they orgasm don't you think they would every time?

Posted by on_the_move    Friday, June 22, 2007 7:39 PM


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you can help ya know ;)

Posted by AmandaHearn    Wednesday, June 27, 2007 12:23 PM


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How do you ENSURE that you have an orgasm? Some women aren't biologically capable of attaining one.

Posted by mrs.wellman    Wednesday, June 27, 2007 1:55 PM


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Use a "personal massager."  Your  daddy-hopeful can help.  It's for the kids!  And an orgasm for Mom really does help.

Posted by Welsh Bride    Thursday, July 12, 2007 1:54 PM


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So-that whole tipping your pelvis in the air thing to "help the semen on it's way" is so totally an old wives tale. I work for an OB/GYN and while the orgasm does help, the tipping the pelvis in the air doesn't really do anything...

Posted by mcrussell    Friday, July 13, 2007 10:24 AM


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This whole article tickles me.  When my son was concieved, I was on top, did not roll over on my back at all, and I did not have an orgasm.

Posted by jessicawalker8    Thursday, July 26, 2007 8:26 AM


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LOL.  You can totally make it  happen...sounds like someone needs to spend a little more time with "herself." LOL  Give yourself a "hand!" LOL

Posted by KGsky    Monday, July 30, 2007 12:31 PM


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I have the same question as the poster. I stopped taking BC's in June and tried in July, no success. So I guess my husband and I will try again this month. We followed the advice axactly above and no success, we'll see I suppose, :)

Posted by 'Chele    Tuesday, July 31, 2007 11:31 AM


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I have been off the pill for a year and we have been trying for 3 months, think there is something wrong?

Posted by littlelovin2001    Sunday, August 12, 2007 1:48 PM


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If I don't tip my pelvis, all of his "manjuice" LOL comes out.  Any other suggestions mcrussell of keeping the boys in?

Posted by pmwarren    Tuesday, August 14, 2007 9:35 AM


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You have to try Instead cups!  They're meant for your period, which is how I practiced putting them in, but they have a TTC use.  You put one in immediately after sex and then hang out in bed for about 30 min on the days right before and of ovulation.  This keeps the semen near your cervix so more of the sperm actually make it towards the egg.  It worked for us!

Posted by miepshell    Thursday, August 16, 2007 10:34 PM


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That's so funny! I love getting off, but I have no idea how to "ensure" that it happens from sex everytime. I wish I could make it happen every time! That's just crazy.

Posted by Monica106    Saturday, August 18, 2007 8:07 PM


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do you like oral sex? for me, that's a sure way of having an orgasm. if i need a litte more help on a certain day, DH gives me oral and I'm on my way! also, we love to use strawberry-flavored lubricant and a little vibrating wand. you gotta do whatever it takes!

Posted by NewMrs07    Tuesday, September 04, 2007 8:57 PM


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oral sex can kill the semen, and lubricant (other than pre-seed) is not good for TTC either!

Posted by jessiecow    Sunday, July 20, 2008 12:43 AM


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The comment below says oral sex kills the semen...  Is that true? We have been off BC for well over  a year!  And still aren't pregnant!

Posted by LPruitt    Sunday, August 17, 2008 9:33 PM


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I read somewhere that the saliva could kill the sperm, I think its something like the acidicness of it

Posted by nicshaw    Tuesday, October 07, 2008 10:42 PM


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yes...i also read in alot of forums that saliva will kill the sperms.

Posted by ladi33bug    Wednesday, December 17, 2008 5:25 PM


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I do the pillow thing after sex and the riding the bicycle thing.. so far none of it has helped. Even when I lay there 30+ min, I get up and it all comes out. I can't lay there all day long.

Posted by KellB916    Wednesday, December 17, 2008 5:37 PM


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It does help when you know when your cervix is opened slightly to allow sperm to enter.  You can have sex on a daily, allowing ejaculate to enter, but if you're not in the stage of your body allowing you to get pregnant, the sperm will just "fall out".  Your cervix is closed and covered to protect your insides, check your ovulation, etc., make sure you're "open" for conception!

Posted by wifeyepperson    Thursday, December 18, 2008 9:37 AM


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Has anybody used the microscope thing that tests your saliva? Does it actually work or is an OPK better money spent?

Posted by lvtaylr    Tuesday, January 06, 2009 1:04 PM


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I bought the fertile-focus microscope 2 months ago.  The first month i had text-book ferning.  The second month nothing.  I know i ovulated both months because i was also using ovulation predictor urine tests and i chart bbt, cervical mucus, and position (i'm a walking science project, i know).  I still like the microscope because its reusable.  Who knows why it didn't work last month!  I bought the OP urine tests from Amazon.com, super cheap, $24 for 50 and they work great!

Posted by hgamboa    Thursday, January 29, 2009 2:47 PM


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I tried the pillow under my butt legs in the air thing for MONTHS. One night, DF wakes me up at like 2 in the morning. We do the deed, I roll over on my side and pass out. Viola - baby boy just turned two. :o)

Posted by aegrimm    Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:22 PM


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I have problems with my menstrul cycle where I really don't get it(I'm 20yrs. old) the last time I got it was almost a year ago. We have been trying lately and have no success, is that a reason why?

Posted by kevinwifey06    Wednesday, June 10, 2009 6:20 AM


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kevinwifey - have you checked with your doctor? If you aren't getting your period, you may not be ovulating at all so that would def not make things easy!!

Posted by mrskovacs    Tuesday, June 16, 2009 12:46 PM


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