Q: Stressed out by infertility?

Posted Monday, September 24, 2007 5:53 PM

Q: I'm having trouble getting pregnant, and it's starting to really stress me out. Is this going to make it even harder to conceive? How can I get the stress under control?

Dr. Joseph Hill: Some fast facts about stress and infertility:

Infertility causes stress.

Stress is associated with lower pregnancy rates.

Stressed patients are more likely to drop out of therapy.

Interventions to decrease stress may increase pregnancy rates.

In other words, you're not alone. In general, women experiencing infertility report high levels of distress. In one study, 40% of women evaluated for distress prior to their first infertility clinic visit met the psychiatric criteria for anxiety, depression or both. And, in another study, women reporting high levels of anxiety and depression prior to starting infertility therapy were less likely to conceive than women who were calmer and happier at the beginning of their cycle.
 
Another way that stress can adversely impact treatment outcome is that distressed women are more likely to drop out of therapy. In one study of women who were insured to have six cycles of infertility therapy, the average patient only did two cycles. The most common reason given for dropping out? Emotional distress.
 
Experimental intervention studies of mind/body programs including biofeedback, counseling, yoga, mild exercise and acupuncture suggest that pregnancy rates may be increased through amelioration of anxiety and depression. In severe cases, medications may also be necessary to treat anxiety and depression.

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re: Q: Stressed out by infertility?

I took Accutane when I was a teen to help with acne. I am now 26 and  am nervous that it may have affected my fertility. I have no weird signs, I'm just nervous because I've heard that it isnt a safe drug for women who are pregnant or who want to become pregnant. Do you think I am worring for nothing? My husband want to start trying in Jan 2009.

Posted by becjune    Wednesday, May 14, 2008 12:47 PM


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Hi Guys: This will be my first post to the Nest. My DH & I have been trying TTC for the past year. We were married in Sept.07 but we lived together for 1yr before we were married. We never used protection because deep down we both wanted a child, badly. I am 27 and my DH is 30. We both never thought that it would honestly be this hard! I went to the Dr. last wk and everything looked great for me he said. He also told me that most women take 1yr to conceive. I wanted to scream and tell him that inside I know something isn't right. He suggested that the next step would to be get DH checked. I didn't realize there was so many girls just like me-crying when their friends get pregos, looking @ baby clothes and just wishing! I have been tracking my AF for the past 8mths, making love like a monkey to my DH :) and I just now ordered ovu strips tonight on ebay! It just doesn't seem fair. We have everything it takes to take care of a child! My mom thinks I am trying to hard. She was 19 and 21 when she had my brother and I ! I am just scared that I am going to be 30 and still trying. I never imagined myself without children. I just want to let you guys know that I know how you all are feeling! I am praying for all of us!!! We all would make great mama's!!!

Posted by babygrljrp    Monday, May 26, 2008 12:31 AM


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I am new to this website and just read the last entry "Stressed out by infertility" and know that you are not alone!  My DH & I tried to get pregnant for about 2 years.  I went on clomid a couple different times and no luck.  Finally my doc ordered a semen analysis on my DH.  We then found out that he was completely sterile.  We started going to a fertility clinic and did artificial insemination with donor sperm and now we have a beautuful baby girl.  But beleive me the path to get where we are today wasn't pretty.  I too, would cry when I heard about other people getting pregnant.  It just wasn't fair!  But beleive that the Lord works in mysterious ways and He does have a plan for each one of us.  Don't give up and good luck!

Posted by Sarabell55    Thursday, August 07, 2008 3:44 PM


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Becjune- according to the FDA there should be no long term effects of Accutane use on fertility. I too have had concerns. I am 22 years old and TTC, I had taken Accutane at age 11 and 13 and have been TTC for 5 months with no luck. My sister also went through 2 rounds (never completed her second) and it took her about 1 year to get pregnant. But apparently we should all be ok, it just has effects on birth defects if you get pregnant while on it or within a month of stopping treatment. Hope this helps! Obviously at age 11 and 13 I wasn't thinking about what if medications had an effect on my fertility. I definately think there needs to be more teaching with the use of medications like this and birth control.

Posted by melissalynnhanna    Saturday, October 04, 2008 10:25 AM


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2 of my friends had been trying for a long time (one 13months and the other 3 years) They both were about a week away from trying IVF and got pregnant. I think at that point they were not thinking about conceiving on their own and the stress about it was low...just thought it was interesting.

Posted by SayAXO    Thursday, March 05, 2009 10:27 AM


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There are also tons of cases of people who try for years to have a baby, end up adopting then have one on their own. Low stress must be important, plus, just trust that whatever needs to happen will in God's timing. BTW, I have 2 friends who had been on several rounds of accutane and no problem having babies--both have two.

Posted by Azalea09    Thursday, June 11, 2009 12:30 PM


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