1stcomeslove's TTC Story

Posted Tuesday, August 10, 2010 12:37 PM

"I can't wait to hear the first heartbeat, feel the first kick... the whole idea of being a mom excites me!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Married life

My husband and I have been together for about 7 years now and married for 9 months. We were married on Halloween 09' and it was so much fun. We have 2 black labs and a cat who are our little furry family. We met back in college, after a few friends introduced us. I remember the first moment I saw him that January. (Though he doesn't remember actually meeting me until that following March which is an excellent confidence booster!) We were so different that we kind of balanced each other out -- like a nice piece of fudge -- sweet with a few nuts.

I have been having a lot of health problems for the past 7 month and once I started to recover, my doctors suggested that I started to try. We (meaning me) talked a lot about having a baby and I now had a doctor's excuse to get my groove on! We officially started trying this May. I think my DH is excited about having a child and will be a great Dad -- he may be a little more excited about us doing it more though.
 
The road ahead

We do have a  few barriers in our way, though. Before we even started to try, doctors warned it might not be easy. I have Celiac disease which is an autoimmune disorder, as well as suspected ENDO. In the end I try and keep my hopes up and we are still pretty early to the game. It has all made me feel closer to my husband and has brought out an amazing side of him.  It's awesome to think that we are going to try and create a little life! It has made me into a pee on a stick crazy women though. I think I took about 15 pregnancy test the first month trying and I was pretty sure my DH was going to kill me. He told me he was going to buy a lock box! I seriously hate the wait. I think that I would rather be in a manure pile on a 90 degree day then sit through the 2 week wait!
 
I can't wait to hear the first heartbeat, feel the first kick... the whole idea of being a mom excites me! I love the tiny hands and feet and baby smell. The way babies look up at you and smile and need you when they are sad. The first dirty diaper that makes my husband gag. It is all beautiful. I am excited about every last living thing about being a mom.  (P.S. We can return kids when they turn 14 right? J/k!)

 

 

 

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re: 1stcomeslove's TTC Story

Lovely Story! I hope you guys get a BFP soon! God Bless!

Posted by saidowu5    Thursday, October 21, 2010 5:44 PM


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Hey! What a beautiful story, brought tears to my eyes. How weird is it that I just signed onto thebump to check my checklist and low and behold my best friend in the whole wide world is front and center on the home page??? Lol! The appreciation that you have built for simply the idea of children is beautiful and I know it will just continue to grow as you forge ahead on your journey. Love you tons!!!!

Posted by mrandmrsruggio    Friday, November 05, 2010 8:56 AM


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How sweet!!! I totally understand how long it can be to wait for a test... I can't tell you how many times I convinced myself I was pregnant only to find out it was PMS not early pregnancy symptoms!!

Posted by MrsKraszewski    Monday, December 06, 2010 7:44 PM


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Since you have a hereditary disease you should consider adoption. There are plenty of parent-less children and you would be no less of a mother to a baby you didn't carry yourself. I don't mean to offend, i gave the same advice to my cousin (who also has a hereditary disease) She didn't get mad but said that she had never considered that before and was amazed at how selfish she was being. The adopted the two most beautiful children and have never looked back.

Posted by joules235    Tuesday, December 14, 2010 12:24 AM


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@joules235: Then when you are ready to have children why don't you adopt? Or is it not selfish of you to have your own biological child since you don't have a hereditary disease? I am trying very hard to not be offended or annoyed by your ignorant suggestion, but I am. I guess those of us with issues are lesser people that don't deserve the right to have a biological child???

Posted by jaopon    Sunday, January 23, 2011 4:20 PM


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@joules235... I think great offense has been taken.  What a horrible thing it is to suggest that because a woman has a hereditary condition she shouldn't have children of her own. Talk about kicking a girl when she is down.  Your ideas are ignorant and narrow minded....  

Posted by amyjo0518    Monday, May 16, 2011 9:55 PM


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What a sweet story!! I know that whatever path you and your DH choose to take yalls love will carry yall the distance! There is no better feeling than holding your baby for the first time:)

Posted by Jstride    Monday, May 23, 2011 6:30 PM


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What a sweet story!! I know that whatever path you and your DH choose to take yalls love will carry yall the distance! There is no better feeling than holding your baby for the first time:)

Posted by Jstride    Monday, May 23, 2011 6:30 PM


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What a sweet story!! I know that whatever path you and your DH choose to take yalls love will carry yall the distance! There is no better feeling than holding your baby for the first time:)

Posted by Jstride    Monday, May 23, 2011 6:30 PM


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@joules235 Seriously? My mom has Celiac Disease and I have to say I'm pretty happy she didn't adopt. My brother, sister and I are all healthy adults now. Maybe you should educate yourself a little more before offering advice to others. Celiac is completely manageable and should in no way stop someone from having children.

Posted by nicari_13    Tuesday, June 14, 2011 4:06 PM


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What a beautiful story. Wishing you both a BFP soon! *baby dust*!

Posted by corsters    Thursday, August 18, 2011 11:52 AM


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Beautiful story!  My Fiance and I are TTC our first little one now!  1 month down, just a week or so till we can enjoy the trying phase of month 2 :)

Posted by cecilandjackie    Thursday, September 29, 2011 3:55 PM


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