Are you avoiding deli meat? - More than I did before getting pregnant
If not, are you heating it up, or eating it cold? - Usually, yes, I've heated it up. I've eaten it cold a few times.
If you're eating it, do you eat the packaged stuff or straight from the counter? - both
What about things like garlic sausage, salami, pepperoni - do/would you eat those? heated or unheated? - I've been eating sausage heated and unheated. I've eaten salami and pepperoni heated on pizza or in subs.