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12-02-2012 at 10:30 PM
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Valentines day baby!

Do you think it would be fun to have your child on Valentines day, or do you think it would not be so fun for your child to share a birthday on a holiday.  I am sure all of us would be happy to have a health baby anytime, but if you could choose in a hypothetical world would you want a Valentines day baby, or would you rather another time? I guess if you are due around Feb first you probably wouldn't want to haha! I am due Feb 20 so it is a possibility for me. I am not sure what I think.

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12-02-2012 at 10:34 PM
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If it was a girl, I would not want a valentines birthday for baby:

1) if you are single, it sucks double

2) if you are in a relationship, he takes you out once as a combo birthday/v day so you get jipped 

 

I do think it would be fun as a child! Candy at school! 



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12-02-2012 at 10:37 PM
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Suz+Mo:

If it was a girl, I would not want a valentines birthday for baby:

1) if you are single, it sucks double

2) if you are in a relationship, he takes you out once as a combo birthday/v day so you get jipped 

 

This for me too. Yes


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12-02-2012 at 10:45 PM
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I personally do not wish to have my LO share their birthday with a holiday, though if she/he came that day I wouldn't complain as long as she was healthy it would be my wish to have LO have their own day.  I'm due on the 18th, so its a big possibility and for the baby pool that was the day I picked just because I would laugh.

I grew up sharing my birthday with Good Friday, within a range of 3 days normally so family always did things for Easter, and my birthday was always just part of the celebration with the only choice being the cake, it kinda sucked big. So I hope that LO wont have to have that issue. 


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12-02-2012 at 10:51 PM
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My EDD is Valentine's Day but I thought about it and I decided that I would schedule my c/s on the 13th.  The selfish reason was, can't spend my day all lovey lovey with the SO if I have to worry about a B-day (though this year, I may have to skip V-Day for obvious reasons, lol).  Selfish reason for the baby, didn't want her B-day to get lost in the holiday.  That and I can see her making barf gestures at the holiday and hating it because it interfered with her birthday.  It reminded me of kids whose birthday are near or on Christmas.  For most it just sucks.  I just feel holidays and birthday are special occasions and should not be celebrated together (my birthday lands on Thanksgiving every 7 yrs at least and I am not a fan of turkey/birthday jokes).  Though if my first baby had been born on January 1st I would not have complained because it is my Grandfather's birthday, too.

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12-02-2012 at 10:56 PM
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Suz+Mo:

If it was a girl, I would not want a valentines birthday for baby:

1) if you are single, it sucks double

2) if you are in a relationship, he takes you out once as a combo birthday/v day so you get jipped 

 

I do think it would be fun as a child! Candy at school! 

 

see, I would think this would be worse if you were a boy... You would have to buy dinner or go Dutch on your birthday.... No fun there either. But the single part makes sense. Nothing worse than expecting all your friends to throw you a party then find out that they are going out on romantic dates instead.  


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12-02-2012 at 11:07 PM
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I've dated two different guys who have their birthdays on Valentine's Day.  One was named Valentine.  It didn't seem to be a big deal to them, although they might have gotten shorted a little on gifts from me since I could combine.  My birthday is on the 4th of July, and growing up it was really great because everyone came together for a big barbecue which also served as my birthday party.  As an adult, it's a little more tricky because I either get invited to bbqs of people I don't know that well who don't know it's my birthday and I feel weird mentioning it or I have to throw my own big party.  Sometimes everything works out still, and I wouldn't trade it.  I think there's a trade-off for V-day because there are already cupcakes and a party at school and you might not get the attention other kids get.  But you do get the cool distinction of having your birthday on a holiday which is something I have always enjoyed.
 
12-03-2012 at 12:53 AM
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My husbands birthday is 2 days before Halloween, mine is 3 days after. Holidays around your birthday kind of steal your thunder. My husband has long complained about pumpkin themed or flavored cakes/pies as birthday dessert.

 
12-03-2012 at 1:06 AM
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My birthday is Valentine's Day so I think it's a great day, but I hope she comes way before then!
 
12-03-2012 at 1:08 AM
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SuzMo:
If it was a girl, I would not want a valentines birthday for baby:1 if you are single, it sucks double2 if you are in a relationship, he takes you out once as a combo birthday/v day so you get jippednbsp;nbsp;I do think it would be fun as a child! Candy at school!nbsp;


No way, my birthday and valentine gifts from my boyfriends have always been separate! No jipping! The only bad part is restaurants are always packed on the 14th so a nice, quiet birthday dinner usually has to happen a few days before or after.
 
12-03-2012 at 1:42 AM
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GeeksWithSqueaks:

I personally do not wish to have my LO share their birthday with a holiday, though if she/he came that day I wouldn't complain as long as she was healthy it would be my wish to have LO have their own day.  I'm due on the 18th, so its a big possibility and for the baby pool that was the day I picked just because I would laugh.

I grew up sharing my birthday with Good Friday, within a range of 3 days normally so family always did things for Easter, and my birthday was always just part of the celebration with the only choice being the cake, it kinda sucked big. So I hope that LO wont have to have that issue. 

Just curious - Easter ranges by over a month (March 22 to April 25), so I can't imagine how your bday would always fall so close to Good Friday. My mom, MIL, and now DD all have bdays that fall in that range, but it's really only once every 2-5 years that their birthdays coincide with the holidays.

However, I do agree with you that having a birthday on a holiday could mean joint celebrations. Valentine's Day is a little different, though, since most families don't get together and celebrate it like they do with Easter, Thanksgiving, or Christmas. 

I'm due the 16th, but I doubt I'll make it to the 14th. Even if I don't get HELLP, my MFM said that the chances are fairly high that my placenta will develop problems before my EDD. If I do make it to the 14th - awesome, especially since Valentine's Day isn't really celebrated where I live, so it's nbd.



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12-03-2012 at 1:44 AM
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My EDD is February 15th, so it's a possibility that LO could arrive on V-Day.  DH wants LO to come on the 16th, since that's his grandfather's birthday and we're naming LO for his grandfather (we know it's a boy).  I told him that I can't control that.

anyways, I think it would be fun as a kid, with lots of candy, etc, but could be a downer as an adult, especially when he's single.  Oh well, it's better than having your birthday on Christmas, at least!


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12-03-2012 at 5:49 AM
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My EDD is Valentine's Day and though I LOVE telling people that because everyone thinks it's adorable, I'm sure my little man would prefer a different day, but who knows? I like what PP said about how as a child he'd get candy on his birthday! :-)

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12-03-2012 at 6:10 AM
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The very thought terrifies me.  I don't have a good track record with Valentine's Day.

When I was 12, a friend of mine was killed in a car accident on Feb 13, and I found out when I got to ballet class on Valentine's Day.  

When I was 16, my boyfriend at the time had a nasty kickboxing accident. It broke several of his ribs, punctured his lung, and he had to have emergency surgery.  It was awful.  And he lived in England at the time, and I was in the states.  So I couldn't even be there with him.

When I was 19, I found out on Valentine's Day that my father was having an affair.

So no, I really hate Valentine's Day.  And I shudder to think that something else could go wrong on that day.  So I would prefer to stay far away from hospitals and major life events around that time. 


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12-03-2012 at 7:01 AM
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My birthday is in April and occasionally falls on Easter. I never minded though. Me and DH's anniversary is Dec. 16th so we sometimes combine gifts.

I'm due the 5th, so I really hope she shows up before the 14th!

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12-03-2012 at 7:55 AM
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My B-day is Dec 26th, so I know how it can suck to have your birthday on or near a holiday. No I hope she decides not to come on Valentine's day! But I'm also due Feb 5th, so I hope she's here well before then anyways :)
12-03-2012 at 8:33 AM
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The very thought terrifies me.  I don't have a good track record with Valentine's Day.

When I was 12, a friend of mine was killed in a car accident on Feb 13, and I found out when I got to ballet class on Valentine's Day.  

When I was 16, my boyfriend at the time had a nasty kickboxing accident. It broke several of his ribs, punctured his lung, and he had to have emergency surgery.  It was awful.  And he lived in England at the time, and I was in the states.  So I couldn't even be there with him.

When I was 19, I found out on Valentine's Day that my father was having an affair.

So no, I really hate Valentine's Day.  And I shudder to think that something else could go wrong on that day.  So I would prefer to stay far away from hospitals and major life events around that time. 

 Dang.

My birthday is the 28th of December so growing up pretty much all of my friends would be out of town so birthday parties pretty much never happened. I don't think valentines day is as big of a deal, and at least people would remember when your birthday was?

BUT my friend died Feb 13 a few years ago and I've been saying from the beginning of this pregnancy that that is the one day I'm hoping to stay away from (and valentines day is kind of associated with it in my mind). That, plus the fact it's pretty much two weeks after my due date... 


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12-03-2012 at 8:47 AM
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Another 4th of July birthday here, as a kid it sucked, I didn't really have parties because friends were almost always doing something with their families and it was only my immediate family that was close by. Now, I don't care all that much.

If this little guy does show up on Valentine's day, he does. All I can do is try to make sure there is distinction between his birthday and the holiday.


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12-03-2012 at 8:48 AM
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My bday is Vday and I did not mind it at all. My mom always made it my special day - and my parents always did something a different day.  Vday is an over-rated holiday anyways (in my opinion). As a kid it was awesome at school!  As a teen and adult its whatever... 

I wouldnt worry too much about a Vday baby - the only reason I would not want my baby born on Vday is bc that would mean I was 7 days overdue, plus I would not want to share my bday with a parent.  Nothing to do with Vday.. ! 


 
12-03-2012 at 8:54 AM
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My birthday is the day before Valentines Day and I am due on the exact same day. I had no issues with it being that close, because I don't feel Valentine's Day to be a "holiday" it is very much a day for the retailers to sell more crap lol BUT I always did very well during that time, I was always still made to feel special and always was doted on more because no one wanted me to feel left out of the day of love lol

Even now my husband treats my birthday and Valentines Day each as their own special day for me even though I could care less about V-Day.

Now Christmas....that is a different story, I would not like to be born on that day lo l

 
12-03-2012 at 9:25 AM
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The very thought terrifies me.  I don't have a good track record with Valentine's Day.

When I was 12, a friend of mine was killed in a car accident on Feb 13, and I found out when I got to ballet class on Valentine's Day.  

When I was 16, my boyfriend at the time had a nasty kickboxing accident. It broke several of his ribs, punctured his lung, and he had to have emergency surgery.  It was awful.  And he lived in England at the time, and I was in the states.  So I couldn't even be there with him.

When I was 19, I found out on Valentine's Day that my father was having an affair.

So no, I really hate Valentine's Day.  And I shudder to think that something else could go wrong on that day.  So I would prefer to stay far away from hospitals and major life events around that time. 

 Dang.

My birthday is the 28th of December so growing up pretty much all of my friends would be out of town so birthday parties pretty much never happened. I don't think valentines day is as big of a deal, and at least people would remember when your birthday was?

BUT my friend died Feb 13 a few years ago and I've been saying from the beginning of this pregnancy that that is the one day I'm hoping to stay away from (and valentines day is kind of associated with it in my mind). That, plus the fact it's pretty much two weeks after my due date... 

Yeah, I'm not even touching the fact that I would be way, WAY past term by Valentine's Day, lol 


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12-03-2012 at 9:44 AM
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My birthday is Feb 13th.  The only person who tried to combine my b'day with v-day was an ex in High School.  I can say it has sucked being so close to v-day just because if my SO and I want to go to dinner for my b'day restaurants are a lot busier as some people try to go before v-day to avoid the crowds.

Also I honestly cannot stand Valentines Day in general.  It is an over commercialized day when we are supposed to publicly celebrate our love to our SO/DH etc. I honestly feel that should be done daily not just once a year.  Plus I think the whole thing is a marketing scam to get us to spend money on useless things.  I would rather get flowers on a random Tuesday than on V-Day.  They would mean so much more to me.

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12-03-2012 at 10:02 AM
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My husband's birthday is on Valentine's Day, and the EDD for our son is also Valentine's Day!

DH hates his birthday.  Everything is pink and red and hearts.  His mother always baked him a cake with hearts all over it for his birthday.  She still does it, even for his 30th birthday.

So, if the baby comes on Valentine's Day, I'll make sure to give him and DH the toughest, most boyish birthday cake every year.  And we'll probably do away with celebrating V-Day in my household, which I'm totally OK with. haha.


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12-03-2012 at 10:19 AM
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I do not want a Valentine's baby, but that's because I'm selfish. No matter how scarce dates get with kids, Valentines day is the one day that I know I'll get a nice romantic night out and I'm not giving it up...or sharing it. I'm think I'm allowed to be a selfish mom one day of the year right? 

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12-03-2012 at 10:41 AM
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My EDD is the 19th and we DEFINITELY don't want a valentines baby!! I do hope I'm early, the wait always seems forever, but if I can keep her in till the 15th or go as early as the 13th, I'll be ok with that. My older sister was a Christmas baby and she reminds us how it sucks...every year!!

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12-03-2012 at 11:33 AM
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My due date is Valentine's Day. I don't really care one way or another; I believe we could make our daughter's birthday special if it was on Valentine's Day. My DH hopes it's not on the exact date though. She will arrive when she arrives, so I am not going to worry about it now. :)

 
12-03-2012 at 1:31 PM
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With DD#1, I was due on Christmas day, and I was really hoping she wouldn't show up on that day. Well, sure enough I went into labor on Christmas Eve and had her Christmas morning. And you know what? The world didn't end. It was actually a really amazing Christmas memory. Now there's just one more reason why Christmas is special to us. We'll have to make an effort to make sure her birthday doesn't get overlooked though.

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I'm due the 13th and as cute as it would be to have a Valentines Day baby I want her to have her own birthday and not one on a holiday.  Also, my great-grandfather passed away on Valentines Day so that just adds to it.

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12-03-2012 at 8:05 PM
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My due date is valentines day and I love it!  I think it would be a great birthday for my daughter :)

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12-03-2012 at 8:06 PM
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Either way, it doesn't matter, but I selfishly kind of want my baby to come on V day. I tend to have a bad time around holidays and my birthday, and have spent a few sour V Days myself... I very selfishly want a little V Day gift [that keeps on giving!] and a reason to celebrate that usually awful day :]

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