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12-18-2012 at 12:49 PM
Excited30
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My Turn To Cry...

I knew that sometimes cell phones can get reset, for whatever reason.  Well, I turned mine on this morning and it's reset.  Do I care about having to re-plug in all the contacts, appnts?  Not really..even the photos/videos are no big deal, but most of them except the last couple days (thank the Lord) are backed up.  What I do care about and am seriously grieving are several of my saved texts from my hubby...things between us are going horribly at the moment and sometimes in the wee hrs of the night I would look at them and remember the time when I was in my 3rd tri and he sent me them.  They were full of love and dreams and excitement.  I even saved some from shortly after having our DD.  He was sweet.  And right now, well, he's not being so nice and I just can't stop crying.  I am trying to let myself cry, as I know it's healing, but it hurts so bad.  It's like I lost some love letters, very dear to my heart.  I even wanted to share them with dd one day to show her how excited her daddy was to meet her and the love that came from him.  Now, they're lost.  I can't go back and wish that I had somehow copied them too..I won't get stuck in the if only's, and today will go on.  I'm really good at focusing on the positives, but I think that right now I just need to get this out and grieve.  

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12-18-2012 at 12:57 PM
acaudill75
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I work for a police department. And I know this probably won't help, but there are devices that will get that information back for you. We do it all the time when people erase stuff they don't want the cops to see. It isn't really erased. Is that going to help with your problems? No, probably not, but it is there. Hopefully by the time your daughter is old enough for it to matter, you won't need those texts to prove that her father loves and wants her, and you will be in a place where he either means a lot or very little to you. You know what I mean???

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12-18-2012 at 2:44 PM
MariJ1008
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aww i am soooooo sorry. loosing stuff like that is the worst. i cried for days a few months ago because my SD card in my phone messed up some how, and I lost so many pictures!!! =( so many of DS, summer fun stuff we did....it sucks so bad. i hope you can some how retrieve the information.

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12-18-2012 at 3:42 PM
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A blessing in disguise. You can't move forward if you are holding on to the past!

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12-18-2012 at 3:46 PM
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Oh no! I'm sorry. I understand how that feels. When SO and I would fight while he was away during my pregnancy I would re-read the texts he sent that were sweet. It always reminded me of who he really was when we fought. That phone broke. You get lost in a fight sometimes and remembering what they are really like helps. ::hugs:: to you!

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