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12-19-2012 at 11:57 AM
spain116
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Nobody else will *get* it

Tomorrow is LO's birthday. She's happy, healthy and strong and we have so much to celebrate.  But, today, I am a sad mama.  A little sad because we are officially closing the baby chapter, but also because today brings back lots of sad and scary memories.  One year ago today, after every treatment known to man and more than 7 weeks of hospital bedrest, my body gave up.  The contractions couldn't be stopped and my water broke.  The doctor removed the cerclage-- the little stitch that had protected my baby from the outside wold was gone.

So much has happened since that day one year ago.  I need to keep reminding myself that she's great- tall, smart and strong with a head full of wild curls.  Despite all that happened, she's amazing.  I know you guys will understand why I cry as I type this.  Enjoy your amazing little ones!  Happy Holidays.
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12-19-2012 at 12:40 PM
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What a wonderful post!  Happy Birthday to your LO!!!
 
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12-19-2012 at 12:43 PM
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It's totally normal to feel that way, so cry if you need to!  Happy early birthday to your LO!
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12-19-2012 at 1:16 PM
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While others might not, I sure do "get" it.  We just celebrated DD's 1st birthday on the 8th.  I went through a rush of emotions both sad and happy. Let yourself feel sad...it's ok.  Sounds like your DD is doing great, so allow yourself to be happy for that as well. 

Happy 1st Birthday to your LO! 
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12-19-2012 at 6:19 PM
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So honest and true.  Happy birthday, LO!
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12-19-2012 at 7:17 PM
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It gets better after their first birthday. Then, after the due date it gets better too. It's okay to be sad. Totally normal, natural, and I feel healthy. 
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We'll miss you sweet Debbie Girl (4.21.12) and sweet Cindy Girl (8.9.12)
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12-26-2012 at 10:26 AM
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Crying as I read this! Ugh I will feel the same way when my little one has her first birthday! Us preemie mommies go through a very different experience than others. It's okay to cry, becuase they are also happy tears! =)
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