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12-19-2012 at 4:24 PM
countrygrl...
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Arghh!!!! *vent if you can't tell*

Please, 2nd or more time mommies, do not take offense.

I am beyond sick of the 2nd+ time moms giving me the "you should do this this way" or the "enjoy doing this while you still can" or the "well, my kid..."

I understand they have their own experience and can appreciate that. But them trying to give unwanted advice or something that is beyond common knowledge and acting like it is some great gem only they know......ANNOYING!!!!

12-19-2012 at 4:55 PM
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LOL.

I have this...but with my MIL. About my DH.

"I can't believe Isaac's crawling! [XXXXX] didn't crawl until he was a year...it's better if you get a baby that doesn't move early." 

I just want to scream, "WTF? DS is not a clone of DH!" 

 


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12-19-2012 at 4:57 PM
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mrscjmb9410:

LOL.

I have this...but with my MIL. About my DH.

"I can't believe Isaac's crawling! [XXXXX] didn't crawl until he was a year...it's better if you get a baby that doesn't move early." 

I just want to scream, "WTF? DS is not a clone of DH!" 

 

Oh, my MIL does it too, concerning both my DH and BIL.

12-19-2012 at 6:40 PM
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Oh God, I hope I never turn into that kind of person!

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12-19-2012 at 8:01 PM
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mrscjmb9410:

LOL.

I have this...but with my MIL. About my DH.

"I can't believe Isaac's crawling! [XXXXX] didn't crawl until he was a year...it's better if you get a baby that doesn't move early." 

I just want to scream, "WTF? DS is not a clone of DH!" 

 

Since I am not friends with that many STM I don't get that. but I do get this ^ Freaking annoying! So I mostly understand how you feel! 


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12-20-2012 at 5:17 AM
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This reminds me of all the well-intending (but completely infuriating) people who would tell me to "cherish these moments" during the first 6 weeks when all I was trying to do was survive and not kill DS in the process.


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12-20-2012 at 6:07 AM
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kristens14:

This reminds me of all the well-intending (but completely infuriating) people who would tell me to "cherish these moments" during the first 6 weeks when all I was trying to do was survive and not kill DS in the process.

Lol! This.  



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12-20-2012 at 10:00 AM
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Hahaha I think all of us get that from people :) If the first baby didn't scare us off I think we can handle another! Same thing..just an extra kid added to the mix!

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12-20-2012 at 12:22 PM
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mrscjmb9410:

LOL.

I have this...but with my MIL. About my DH.

"I can't believe Isaac's crawling! [XXXXX] didn't crawl until he was a year...it's better if you get a baby that doesn't move early." 

I just want to scream, "WTF? DS is not a clone of DH!" 

Every single one of my IL's does this! Oh E won't crawl until he is xxx age because that is when DH did. E will love sweet potatoes because DH does...blah blah blah It is so stupid.


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12-20-2012 at 2:37 PM
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countrygrl5533:

Please, 2nd or more time mommies, do not take offense.

I am beyond sick of the 2nd+ time moms giving me the "you should do this this way" or the "enjoy doing this while you still can" or the "well, my kid..."

I understand they have their own experience and can appreciate that. But them trying to give unwanted advice or something that is beyond common knowledge and acting like it is some great gem only they know......ANNOYING!!!!

Um, I'm a little afraid of you now ... ;)


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12-20-2012 at 9:45 PM
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I totally have my moments when things said to me from stm's drive me batty.  I think it bugged me more when I was pregnant then anything. I don't like it when my experience is compared to another's.  I try and watch that I don't do that as well..truthfully I think that we all do it at one time or another.  Some people though has a tendency to do this ALL THE TIME!

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