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12-18-2012 at 12:16 PM
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Screaming during the day

I have a problem opposite of the "waking up screaming" mom. My DD sleeps fine at night. I can also put her down for naps no problem (though she takes short naps these days, around 30 minutes each). However when she is awake she spends most of the time screaming. I feed her (formula, cereals, purees), burp her, make sure her diaper is clean. She doesn't want to lie on her play mat, play in her exersaucer, be in the swing, sit on my lap or on the floor and play with toys. Even in my arms she screams. Or she might do those things I just mentioned for 2 minutes, but then start screaming again. She's not touching her ears at all, I can't see any sign of teeth, she refuses the teething ring (or a wet cloth), she has regular poo. It's breaking my heart that I can't figure out what's wrong. Other than the screaming she seems fine, smiles a lot, laughs, etc.

 
12-18-2012 at 2:28 PM
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How long has this been going on? It could be an ear infection, even if she isn't messing with her ears. In any case, if it's a pain scream, I'd probably put a call in to the pedi. I hope she feels better soon!

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12-18-2012 at 3:18 PM
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It's been a few days. It's not all the time, but several times during the day. No problem at night. She does wake up more often to feed, but she's back in bed 20 minutes later no fussing.

 

Is it possible to have an ear infection without a fever? I have her 6 months appointment next week (the doctor does office hours between Christmas and New Years!), but if I don't have a choice I'll go this week.


 
12-18-2012 at 8:21 PM
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I am pretty sure it is. I had them so often as a child, I have a lot of scarring in my ears and can't always feel it when I have an ear infection now. You might try some OTC ear drops to see if that eases it.

It could also be gas. DS screams long and loud when his belly hurts. He went through a space of several weeks where he got a belly ache almost every day. Tylenol didn't help at all, so I knew it wasn't an earache or headache. Eventually giving him gas drops every two hours (except at night) got things going again, and now he can pass gas on his own pretty easily without the drops.


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12-19-2012 at 7:46 AM
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Jess was doing this last night.  She just got over an ear infection the week after Thanksgiving.  I gave her some Tylenol in the event that it was pain and that didn't help.  So, I gave her some gas drops and that didn't help.  Hopefully we have a better night tonight.  She also started waking during the night to nurse.  Usually this only happens when she's getting sick :(  I'm kind of worried.  Hopefully it's not any of these things for you and it's better tonight.

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12-19-2012 at 8:45 AM
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Thanks. I searched a bit online and besides the screaming she really has no other symptoms of an ear infection. Plus I never had any in my life. Even though my friend said she sees no sign of a teeth (I should have said in my first post I see no sign of a teeth, not teething. I see plenty of sign of teething), and my gut tells me it's teething, so I tried some teething drops and it helped. Gas would be my second guess, so I will go get some gas drops.

 
12-19-2012 at 10:08 AM
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If she is really crying that much and actually screaming that often I would take her in.  You definitely do not have to have a fever to have an ear infection.  DS1 had so many ear infections his first year and we never had any indication other than when we happened to be at the dr for well checks and found out.  Once we noticed a pattern we started taking him in when he had bad colds because we knew with him it would lead to an ear infection and it always did.  He ended up needing tubes and then grew out of it, totally fine now.  Anyway, my point is he never pulled on his ears, cried, had a fever, nothing.  He acted normal and happy and we had no idea that his ears were horrible.  Not saying this for sure is an ear infection but might be good to rule it out and whatever other ideas your dr may have.

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12-20-2012 at 7:15 PM
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Well last night was better than before. I checked her mouth this evening and she actually has her first tooth coming in! Have you made any progress in figuring out what's wrong with your little one?

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12-20-2012 at 8:12 PM
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seansgirl2006:
If she is really crying that much and actually screaming that often I would take her in.  You definitely do not have to have a fever to have an ear infection.  DS1 had so many ear infections his first year and we never had any indication other than when we happened to be at the dr for well checks and found out.  Once we noticed a pattern we started taking him in when he had bad colds because we knew with him it would lead to an ear infection and it always did.  He ended up needing tubes and then grew out of it, totally fine now.  Anyway, my point is he never pulled on his ears, cried, had a fever, nothing.  He acted normal and happy and we had no idea that his ears were horrible.  Not saying this for sure is an ear infection but might be good to rule it out and whatever other ideas your dr may have.

 

I'm beginning to think she's just at a "screaming stage". She rarely cries, but she screams when she's tired, she screams when hungry, she screams when she needs to burp, she screams when she's in pain (gas, possibly teething), she screams when she flipped over on her belly and is stuck, she even screams when she's happy! LOL It has gotten slightly better, so unless it gets worse again I'll just wait until her pedi appointment next week.

 


speer06:
Well last night was better than before. I checked her mouth this evening and she actually has her first tooth coming in! Have you made any progress in figuring out what's wrong with your little one?

 

I'm glad last night was better for you. Yay for her first tooth!

 

As for me, one morning I thought maybe she is cold. She always has a long sleeve on, but I put a thicker sweater over it and she actually screamed less... for a few hours. She also screams less after longer naps, but those are few and far between these days.  Only one time were her screams really really bad. I gave her some tempra and she eventually calmed down. I really think it's just teething. Just a very long teething phase... My friend said her son was fussy like that for a good two weeks before every tooth that came out.


 
12-21-2012 at 8:50 AM
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I just found another possible reason. We moved to a bigger size diaper at night about a week ago so that we wouldn't have to change it every time she feeds. I had to change it at her third feeding of the night though, so when she woke up I didn't change it right away (plus I knew she would poo within 30 minutes of being awake). She was perfectly happy the first 30 minutes of being up, but screamed a lot after I changed her diaper (she still fits in the smaller diaper). I changed her back to the bigger size diaper and she has screamed less since.

 
12-21-2012 at 9:29 AM
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Oh man, the screaming phase.  Our daughter likes to sream too apparently, even when she's happy.  Good luck, I hope you guys get a tooth out of all of this!

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12-21-2012 at 10:45 AM
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speer06:
Oh man, the screaming phase.  Our daughter likes to sream too apparently, even when she's happy.  Good luck, I hope you guys get a tooth out of all of this!

 

Seems to be a girl thing too, as all of my friends who have boys haven't gone through such a phase. Makes me rethink wanting to have two girls... LOL


 
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