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12-22-2012 at 12:55 PM
Jessandthe...
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PW: Visiting DH's family

I went ahead and did my "wifely duty" of scheduling a visit 4 hours away to see DH's grandparents. We rode with my ILs and left at 11am, visited for 2.5 hours and drove back all in one day. Indifferent

Upon arriving, DH's (totally a.s.s.hat) grandmother gave DD a gift bag, looked me in the eye and said, "It has toys in it. Well, you can't control everything can you?"  Thank you, MIL for complaining to your whole family about me...

We also had a lovely dinner conversation:

Grandmother: " I really like photos of Adelaide. She photographs very well."

Me: "Yes, she's very photogenic. She gets it from DH."

Grandmother: "I mostly like the ones of just her and DH..." Then she laughed.

 

I just love my ILs. They make my family seem so nice. 


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12-22-2012 at 12:59 PM
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Oh don't they sound lovely!

Good god. Some people are just A-holes!

What does your DH say when they act like that?


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12-22-2012 at 1:20 PM
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He says, "I'm sorry my family is all a.s.s.holes" Big Smile I am supremely happy that he no longer fights with me about how they are not awful. He recognizes it now and it's much easier to let go of. I feel really bad for him though. They don't respect him at all and will always treat him like he's 5 and making awful decisions.

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12-22-2012 at 2:02 PM
Kadie331
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JessandtheBabe:
He says, "I'm sorry my family is all a.s.s.holes" Big Smile I am supremely happy that he no longer fights with me about how they are not awful. He recognizes it now and it's much easier to let go of. I feel really bad for him though. They don't respect him at all and will always treat him like he's 5 and making awful decisions.

That sucks! I would stop visiting my family if they treated me that way!


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12-22-2012 at 4:52 PM
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I feel for you. I have to go to MIL's tomorrow. I hope I don't have a WTF post tomorrow night....but I just may.

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12-22-2012 at 7:55 PM
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JessandtheBabe:

I just love my ILs. They make my family seem so nice. 

Prolonged periods with either of our families makes us appreciate the other.

I like his family for not being a complete zoo (complete with poo flinging monkeys) every time there's a gathering... my family is loud, and obnoxious, and crude.

I like my family for not being passive aggressive. If we have an issue with something someone says, does, wears, or makes faces about... we say so. MIL makes dramatic sighs of exasperation, and then waits til you leave to tell anyone who's still around what she would've done if she were me (or whoever is on her sh*t list for the moment).


I'm ready to climb the walls, too, buddy.

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12-23-2012 at 5:57 PM
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Wow, you did good to get through it.

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