I have a REALLY hard time with this. It's kind of a "which came first: the chicken or the egg?" argument, but I feel like DH didn't help much when L was born so I did EVERYTHING & so that's how things have always been... He hadn't ever given either of the boys a bath until he took L to KS for Thanksgiving on his own a few weeks ago! So now, faced with the idea that he'll have them on his own when we split, it's very hard for me to accept that he'll have to learn how to do things his own way & I won't be able to control it. I'm a control freak... which may be why he wasn't offering to help in the first place.
