Hugs OP!!!!! I can completely empathize with the "but I just wanna eat at some point today" moments!!
I'm not sure if it's DH or the bank I need to be peeved with... But our bank made it so that anyone who transfers money into an account gets flagged after X number of times... We didn't know this and DH did over that number... They told him come into the bank branch and he'd be able to make as many transfers in a month no problem and I'd have access to funds right away... Fast forward to today when I'm out finishing up the Christmas shopping... Card gets declined... Turns out they not only aren't making the money available, but they're putting a hold on his check until HE verifies it online even though HE took it into the bank personally!! In other words, no money, and the next business day I believe is Wednesday!!
My main vent with DH though is that I need help with the kids. I need time to do things without the kids. While I understand that things are crazy with work, at some point I need help with the kids so that I can get the other work done. Had he been helping with DS this AM I just MIGHT have gotten out the door early enough that we wouldn't have had to reschedule DS's one-year baby visit... Thing is, I don't know if we'll be able to keep our Ped with the insurance change at the start of the year...