I never thought I'd have a child when I was younger...
finding a man who is an amazing partner, friend and husband...who I can bear the difficult times with, who I trust will always be there for me and my child, who I knew will be a good dad...that was THE most important thing...all the menI dated before never made me feel secure enough to do this, but my husband does, and he was never someone I'd question walking out on me, doing things behind my back, i truely say, make sure you trust the person you are with first and foremost......,
Another thing, about 3 years ago my husband and I started following and devoting our lives to Jesus...and honestly, I was NEVER the type to even give the whole "Christian life" a second glance but when my husband took us to church on a whim, I soon found the greatest gift of all for my own life, my marriage and for my (then) unborn child....Jesus. His teaching, His amazing healing power and gift of grace have given me the peace, protection and love for my family....and the words of the bible were an absolute blessing to my life and gave me the foundation that lacked for so many years...
This couldn't have happened w/ just me alone but with my husband as well and now, things ARE hard, having a child is one of the most challenging and beautiful experiences of one's life but I would go thru it any day in a heartbeat even if it's been tough...
I don't know if this is any help, but I thought I'd share. Many, many blessings to you and I hope you have a beautiful child one day :)