I am so sorry for your loss. I know this is a difficult time emotionally and physically.
For me, I stayed home for four weeks after my surgery. My surgery was not laparoscopic; I pretty much had a smaller-scale c-section. I physically healed pretty quickly. My scar still hurts from time to time, but the pain is not very frequent, like it used to be. I have vitamin e oil that I use on my scar. I also have scar lotion, but I haven't used it much.
We started trying again in November, after four cycles post-op. we were advised to wait two cycles by my dr. Last time, it only took us six months to conceive, but this time I only have one tube, so I'm not sure what this will be like. We waited because we were both not ready after two cycles. My DH was worried about losing me(the whole surgery thing was pretty scary for both of us), and I was very unstable emotionally. I still have a hard time every once in a while, but I think that's normal. I still think about it everyday, and I miss my baby everyday.
Again, I am sorry for your loss. It is not fun to be here, but having this place has been such a warm, safe place for me.
Sending you positive thoughts,