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12-24-2012 at 10:51 AM
sonrisa
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Best wishes for a calm Christmas

This year, many of us will be hurting and either holing up or putting on a plastic smile for others. I hope everyone makes it through with as little pain as possible and maybe even finds some joy.  Take care of yourselves.
 
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12-24-2012 at 11:02 AM
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Thanks! Well put! I was just giving myself a pep talk while getting dressed. Let's hope these 2 days breeze by as painless as possible  ( wishful thinking I know)
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12-24-2012 at 11:09 AM
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Thanks. It definitely will not be easy but I'm hoping we all find some Christmas spirit during this difficult time.
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12-24-2012 at 12:10 PM
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Wine.  Lots and lots of wine.  Especially tonight at MILs where I'm sure we'll get asked 3700 times when we're having more kids.
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12-24-2012 at 12:23 PM
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Thanks!  I needed to hear this, As with many of the other responses to this post I've been pep-talking myself up all morning as well.   We were only 5 weeks when I had an MC on Thursday...we were planning on telling our parents as a Christmas present..soooooo it's a little rough for me.  My DH doesn't get why I've been so upset, he's been supportive, but I think it's just because he didn't feel everything I felt in the last 3 weeks...oh sigh.

We can do this, right?  We're strong. 
 
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12-24-2012 at 12:41 PM
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Thanks lady! Wishing the same for you. Hang in there everyone!


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12-24-2012 at 2:18 PM
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Thank you so much sonrisa! 

I wish all of you comfort and joy during this holiday, or whatever holiday you may celebrate. I am thankful for each and every one of you for the comfort you have given me during the difficult recently. 
10/24/2012: BFP#1 EDD 7/3/13, missed m/c @ 9 weeks, D&E procedure DX: Septate Uterus. Awaiting further surgery on May 14th to remove the rest of the septum
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12-24-2012 at 9:44 PM
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camdenfaithful:
Wine. nbsp;Lots and lots of wine. nbsp;Especially tonight at MILs where I'm sure we'll get asked 3700 times when we're having more kids.


That's my plan. TONS of wine. And occasional trips to the bathroom to cry and then reapply makeup.
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12-24-2012 at 9:47 PM
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AshleyKleikamp:
Thanks! nbsp;I needed to hear this, As with many of the other responses to this post I've been peptalking myself up all morning as well. nbsp; We were only 5 weeks when I had an MC on Thursday...we were planning on telling our parents as a Christmas present..soooooo it's a little rough for me. nbsp;My DH doesn't get why I've been so upset, he's been supportive, but I think it's just because he didn't feel everything I felt in the last 3 weeks...oh sigh.We can do this, right? nbsp;We're strong.nbsp;


I think men just can't understand. DH has been SO supportive, but I know he doesn't feel it like me. It was an external circumstance to him. I'm the one dealing with the guilt of having my body not support my baby illogical as it is I knew he was there and I knew what it was to carry life in me and then to lose that life to DH it was just an extra line on the pregnancy test. Not his fault, but he just can't understand.
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12-25-2012 at 6:31 AM
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camdenfaithful:
Wine.  Lots and lots of wine.  Especially tonight at MILs where I'm sure we'll get asked 3700 times when we're having more kids.

I totally agree on the wine option.

I am going to stay calm, not think about how I should have 50 days left before my edd, visit with my family who knows about my loss and who cares about me, drink wine and eat dessert. That sounds like a perfect plan to me.

Wishing you all peace through this tough time of year. I'll be sending out positive thoughts all day.

Warm hugs,

Mrsfunk07 
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