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12-24-2012 at 10:06 AM
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A Christmas Apology

Ladies, I'm sorry.  I haven't been in a good place over the last week and I haven't been here supporting a single person or participating in the board.  I'm not proud of it, but I hope that after the holidays (which is where a lot of my emotions are stemming from) it will get better.  

I miss you all, I really do, and I hope that everyone enjoys the holidays as best they can, in whatever way you celebrate it and know that all of you, and all of our little ones lost are in my mind this holiday.   

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12-24-2012 at 10:07 AM
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No apology necessary! You take care of yourself, sweetie - do what you need to do. So sorry you are having a hard time. We'll be here for you. {{hugs}}
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12-24-2012 at 10:11 AM
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Don't feel bad. We all have times when we need to step away.  Have a Merry Christmas.
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12-24-2012 at 10:12 AM
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It's alright, md, take all the time you need.  We're all feeling pretty sh!tty right now.  The holidays is a big fat reminder of what should have been.  We're all just trying to through it all.

Big ((hugs)) to you, hun.

2013 will be better, it has to be. 
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12-24-2012 at 10:15 AM
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rlajambe:

It's alright, md, take all the time you need.  We're all feeling pretty sh!tty right now.  The holidays is a big fat reminder of what should have been.  We're all just trying to through it all.

Big ((hugs)) to you, hun.

2013 will be better, it has to be. 

This. Yes    ((hugs)) to you MD, take all the time you need, we'll be here when you're ready.


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Lost my beautiful mom to Ovarian Cancer on 01/04/2012
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RE found Hyperprolactinaemia (elevated prolactin levels) started bromocriptine on 12/13/12.

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12-24-2012 at 10:18 AM
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Oh love, don't you dare apologize.  Many hugs to you, lady.  This time of year is about self-preservation.



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12-24-2012 at 10:19 AM
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No need to apologize! I was thinking of you yesterday. You're totally allowed to grieve. I hope the new year brings you better things!
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BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy.
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12-24-2012 at 10:29 AM
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rlajambe:

It's alright, md, take all the time you need.  We're all feeling pretty sh!tty right now.  The holidays is a big fat reminder of what should have been.  We're all just trying to through it all.

Big ((hugs)) to you, hun.

2013 will be better, it has to be. 

This! And if 2013 isn't better than 2012 I might just crawl in bed and hide until it gets better!
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12-24-2012 at 10:30 AM
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Thinking of you! Huge hugs!  2013 will be a good year, I feel it!
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12-24-2012 at 10:30 AM
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12-24-2012 at 10:32 AM
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Love you, hun! Big ((HUGS)) as you are dealing with all of these emotions. 

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12-24-2012 at 11:01 AM
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You support without even knowing it. ;)
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12-24-2012 at 11:02 AM
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No apology necessary my dear! I think a lot of us are feeling the exact same way, because it's been so quiet around here lately. Take care of yourself and mosey on back when you're good an ready. [[[hugs]]] to you!!
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12-24-2012 at 11:11 AM
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((((HUGS)))) md.  Do you what ya gotta do.  We'll be here waiting for you when you're ready to come back.  Thinking of you tons and hope you're feeling better soon.
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12-24-2012 at 11:30 AM
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Huge hugs hon. This is a terrible time of year.
"Keep on dreaming even if it breaks your heart"
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12-24-2012 at 11:31 AM
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Do not apologize, we all totally understand. Huge hugs, and I hope you feel better soon, hon. We all love ya and are here for you. xoxo

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12-24-2012 at 11:47 AM
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I was just thinking about you today.  I'm sorry to hear you are having a hard time.  I really hope things turn around for you soon and wishing you the best for 2013!!  ((HUGE HUGS))
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12-24-2012 at 12:28 PM
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rlajambe:

It's alright, md, take all the time you need.  We're all feeling pretty sh!tty right now.  The holidays is a big fat reminder of what should have been.  We're all just trying to through it all.

Big ((hugs)) to you, hun.

2013 will be better, it has to be. 

All of this.  Huge hugs md.  We're here when you need us.
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12-24-2012 at 12:48 PM
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This first year is so hard. I know you never imagined the holidays would be like this. Take all the time you need for your self.
My thoughts are with you and your sweet little Asher.
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12-24-2012 at 1:04 PM
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No apologies needed! I was worried about YOU and how you were doing. I'm sorry that you are having a rough time love. Big ((hugs))
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12-24-2012 at 1:27 PM
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So sorry md. I hope that you feel better after the holidays. 2013 will be a great year!
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12-24-2012 at 1:41 PM
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I've been thinking of you and wondering where you were. Please don't apologize to us, you have to take care of you. As pp have said we are all having a hard time right now in our own ways. I hope you will take some time to be kind to yourself for the next few days and we'll be glad to have you back whenever youre ready. Big hugs sweetie.
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12-24-2012 at 1:44 PM
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No need to apologize. [HUGS]
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12-24-2012 at 2:12 PM
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No apologies needed, lady, and that comes from the woman who responds sporadically and only when I can handle thinking of anything future TTC related. Just much love and wishes for a merry Christmas for you and your DH.
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12-24-2012 at 4:20 PM
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KatieintheCity:
No apology necessary! You take care of yourself, sweetie - do what you need to do. So sorry you are having a hard time. We'll be here for you. {{hugs}}

this!

get better honey

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12-24-2012 at 5:57 PM
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I am sorry you are having a difficult time, but you know that everyone here can relate and understand how you are feeling. This time of the year is very hard, I hope you start feeling a little better soon. No need to apologize.
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12-24-2012 at 9:36 PM
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i've been the same this past week, and like the ladies before me said - i think everyone understands that this time of year is difficult for everyone. (((hugs))) and take the time you need!


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12-24-2012 at 9:58 PM
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((((((((hugs))))))))))))

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12-25-2012 at 10:37 AM
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No need for an apology. Hugs to you.
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12-27-2012 at 5:46 AM
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(((hugs))) I have been feeling the same way hon. I hope your holiday was nice and that you are back to posting when you feel up to it.
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