Thanks everyone!
Although I'm not a fan of the language either, I hadn't thought of taking the silly route to relax him. He is totally on board for TTC, it's just his schedule that derails us. He complains about wanting to but just not having the energy. Luckily, I got a definite positive on my ovulation test yesterday and he was actually up for it, I didn't even have to remind him, I just told him in the morning that it was a good day to try if he was up for it, and he was. He even told me today that he wasn't sure if his body would cooperate, but that he would try really hard to have sex the next few nights in a row to increase our chances.
I am trying hard not to push too hard and be as open with him as possible. It will happen one way or another. It's just difficult.
Thank you all for being supportive and not judging me (too much).