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<?xml-stylesheet type="text/xsl" href="http://community.thebump.com/cs/utility/FeedStylesheets/rss.xsl" media="screen"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/" xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"><channel><title>Preemies</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/4236745/ShowForum.aspx</link><description>Preemies need special care and their moms need support. You'll find other moms with preemie babies right here. The moderators of this board are SWMcFarland and BostonKisses2.&amp;nbsp;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/blogs/nest_baby_editors/pages/the-bump-community-rules.aspx" mce_href="http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/blogs/nest_baby_editors/pages/the-bump-community-rules.aspx" cmimpressionsent="1"&gt;&lt;img class="image" border="0" src="http://images.thenest.com/blog/af/btn_communityrules.gif"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:language>en</dc:language><generator>CommunityServer 2.1 SP1 (Debug Build: 61120.2)</generator><item><title>Weight Gain in NICU</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74145214.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 07:05:32 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74145214</guid><dc:creator>mamathompson7</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74145214.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74145214</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;My daughter is not quite a preemie, she was born at 36 weeks 5 days, but had IUGR so she was only 3 lbs 10 oz. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She has been on IV TBN and lipids for 3 days and her feeds started at 12 hours old starting at 4 mL, then 24 hours later 8 mL, and has had 3 feedings at 13 mL.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The morning after she was born her weight went down at 3 lbs 9.5 oz, but was back up the half ounce the next day. &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I know it has only been 3 days, but it has still stayed the same. When did your baby start gaining weight and how quickly did it come on?&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Adjusted age</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74136233.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 16:57:06 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74136233</guid><dc:creator>flerlgirl</dc:creator><slash:comments>13</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74136233.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74136233</wfw:commentRss><description>Forgive me if this has been asked recently; I haven't had my Wheaties yet.&lt;br /&gt;How do you handle the whole actual age vs adjusted age with your preemie? For doctors appointments I assumed I'd give both ages unless they just want adjusted. But for preschools, friends, family, etc...do you give the actual or adjusted? Or am I doomed to telling my whole life story whenever someone asks? :]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There's probably no right answer, but I was wondering what all of you do. Thanks!!!</description></item><item><title>34-weekers- typical length of NICU stay</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74023358.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 15:07:33 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74023358</guid><dc:creator>chicagobride_07</dc:creator><slash:comments>18</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74023358.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74023358</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;Hi ladies!&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I have some complications with my pregnancy, and will need to deliver no later than 34 weeks.&amp;nbsp; I saw my high risk doctor yesterday and everything points to me being able to hold out until 34 weeks, but I am being hospitalized in case this needs to be earlier.&amp;nbsp; Baby is now 3 lbs, 11 ounces at 31 weeks.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I know that this can vary dramatically, but DH and I are just trying to get an idea of what to expect.&amp;nbsp; I've asked various physicians on potential length of NICU stay at 34 weeks and get really different answers- from 1 to 6 weeks.&amp;nbsp; My MFM doctor yesterday was saying that after my c section (3-4 day stay), the baby could potentially go home with us. (!?!).&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;We won't know for sure until the birth, but what have your experiences been with 34 weekers?&amp;nbsp; Also, we've been stocking up on preemie clothes and diapers-&amp;nbsp; but just today my friend (who had a 26 week micro-preemie) was saying we should be buying newborn, instead.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Thanks in advance for any insights you can provide.&lt;/P&gt;</description></item><item><title>Pregnant &amp; TTC After a Preemie Check In 5/16/13</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74077062.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 15:36:38 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74077062</guid><dc:creator>punky917</dc:creator><slash:comments>31</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74077062.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74077062</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Welcome to the check in group for Pregnant After Preemie! This group is 
also for those who are actively trying to conceive, planning on it, or 
just thinking about it... 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, list your first name, due date if you're pregnant or ttc 
timeline, preemie's name and gestational age at birth as well as the 
reason for their prematurity. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;-------------------------------------------------&lt;/b&gt; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Last week Updates: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;komurphy: baby Glenn is currently doing well despite a rough first week due to intestinal infections and blockages; We will continue to keep you, LO, and the family in our thoughts and prayers. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;CurlingRocks: everything is fine; says that 2 days after the shots are always exhausting&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;adamnkel: baby is measuring on track and BP is good; received an ok from doc to go on a cruise! Hope you had a great time!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;TriciaandSean: 2 days away from a full term baby!! Way to go!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;sdtchica13:
 cervix still stable at 31 weeks and did not shorten when pressure was applied; had negative FFN test and LO is measuring 3lbs. 11oz. Hoping she gets a VBAC. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;L&amp;amp;R70707: had fetal echo and everything looks great! LO is measuring 1 week ahead and cervix is still long at 4.7cm&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;Mommy 2CB: had 36 week appt and last NST! one more week for full term status!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;tlk432: talked with doc about a cerclage and was told possibility of a VBAC is 50/50; she said she is pretty sure about having a RCS and is ok with that&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;-----------------------------------------------&lt;/b&gt; 
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pregnant:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;BabyRolston1-Lindy- DD Natalie born at 29w 5d due to pre-e, DS due 5/20/13 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;TriciaandSean-Kieran born at 34.5 weeks PTL, #2 EDD 6/8/13.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mommy2CB, Kristin- DS born at 33 weeks 5 days due to PTL, baby#2 EDD 6/12/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Punky917-DS Noah born at 26 weeks due to pPROM; baby#2 EDD 7/1/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sdtchica13, Carrie-DD Corrine Reese born at 29 weeks 6 days due to a placental abruption and pPROM, baby#2 EDD 7/11/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;tlk432: Trish-DS born at 34.5 weeks due to pProm and IC; baby #2 EDD 7/11/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jlemo, Jenny- DS Hunter born at 35 weeks PTL, baby #2 EDD 7/18/13&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MamaAnnabird, Anna -DS Isaac born 34 weeks due to PROM 8/23/11, baby #2 EDD 8/22/13

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kwells1-DS George born at 31 weeks and 3 days due to PTL; baby #2 EDD 8/28/13 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;adamnkel: DD born at 35 weeks due to pre-e; Baby #2 EDD 8/31/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;L&amp;amp;R70707 - DS born 34w6days due to unexplained PTL, Baby#2 due 9/2/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;CurlingRocks, DS was born at 31w 3d due to officially to PTL 
following pPROM at 28w, but mama was on SBR for 6 months due to SCH, 
FVL, and Placental Abruption at 13w 4d; DD was a MMC delivered at 18w 
due to septate uterus; baby #3 due 9/17/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;littlerockflower-DS born at 29w due to Pprom, Baby#3 due 9/20/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bruton8288: DD Victoria born at 36w due to fetal distress,very low glucose levels,decrease fetal movement; Baby #2 EDD 9/22/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lyns0629: DD born at 31 weeks due to unexplained PTL; Baby #2 11/09/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bookywormone: DD born at 33w5d due to pre-e; Baby #2 EDD 12/12/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;hjweber-&lt;/span&gt; DD Hannah born 34w5d due to unknown cause; Baby #2 EDD 12/20/2013 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;vsalt31: DS Henry born at 31 3d due to unexplained prom; Baby #2 EDD 12/2013&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;TTCing: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sabs0629: Sabrina-DS Noah was born at 28 weeks due to unexplained PTL &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;michelleigh24, Michelle TTC since 11/2/12, Jasper born at 36 weeks, due to short cervix, heavy bleeding through out pregnancy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;erikaja6, Erika - DS Jordan, born at 33 weeks due to IC 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;*Sweet Pea*, Jamie - DD Skylar, born at 29 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MaMaSzcz, Erica - DS, Grayson, born at 33 weeks due to prom and bifurcated uterus 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MariaWaters- DD Gwenyth born at 34 weeks due to unexplained PTL. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;DrRx- DD Adalyn born 26wd due to Pprom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GirlyGirl319, Danielle-DS was born at 33w4d due to infection in placenta &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Thinking about/Planning on TTCing: &lt;/b&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;lolen88, Lauren - DS Tanner, born at 32 weeks due to unknown causes 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OscarQ- Alison, TTC in 2012, DS Kevin born at 26 weeks due to pre-e. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GLGB- DS was born at 33 weeks due to unexplained preterm labor 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;nayandjosh- Renee- DS, Christian, born at 27 weeks due to abruption, TTC fall 2012 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mybb- DS born at 28w1d due to severe pre-eclampsia 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;APRILYN501- DD Kaylee born at 32 weeks 3 days after PROM 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ajgibson-Janeen, DD born at 25 weeks due to eclampsia. Pregnancy #2 ended in miscarriage 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;cfitz16, &lt;/span&gt;DS was born at 36 weeks due to pre-term labor. DD was born at 34 weeks when my 
water broke after being monitored closely, pelvic rest and progesterone 
shots.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mommies (again)!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;komurphy- DS &amp;amp; DD born at 27 weeks; DS born at 31 weeks due to bulging membranes and threat of a prolapsed cord&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jteneback, DD was born at 34 weeks 3 days after pPROM; DS was born at 35 weeks!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;

&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sucrets4, Danielle - DD Emmalynn born at 33w due to pPROM, DD#2 born at 35w 5d due to Pprom&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kelly321- My DD R was born at 34w1d due to HELLP, DD#2 born FULL TERM! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IncogNeato-DD born at 36 weeks due to PPROM, DD#2 born full term! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;light52- DS2 was born at 35w 5d for no known reason, #3 born at 35w 4d&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ericalee27, Erica - DS Quinn, born at 35w,4d due to pre-e. DS born full term! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;eSynergy- DS was born at 36 weeks --- the reason is unexplained (just went into labor early), DS born full term.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cara03-Cara, DS Jacob born at 24 weeks due to IC. DS Lucas born at 36w 2d&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Angie637-DS Peyton born at 33 weeks due to pPROM. #2 and #3 born at 35w due to PPROM.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lucy460-Lucy, DS #1 born at 35 weeks 4 days due to HELLP, DD born at 36w &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Delphiaraven-Stacey, DS born at 34 weeks due to PROM, DS born full term. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Lili_h, Lili-DS Matthew born at 34 weeks 4 days due to PTL. DD born full term. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Amercana-  identical twin girls born at 34 weeks 5 days, DS born full term.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wally3, Eve- DS Johnny born 34w 3 days PROM, DS#2 born full term.&amp;nbsp; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MeNV-Mel, Phinny born @ 34 weeks after water broke due to large fibroids, DS#2 born at 34w. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kadyra-DS born at 36 weeks due to severe IUGR, DS was born at 32 weeks &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Damabo80- DD#1 born at 31w due to HELLP/pre-e. DS born full term&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;katieguth- DD Melanie born at 31 weeks due to Severe Pre-E. DS born 8/15/12. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;nat6102006-first DD born at 32 weeks due to shortened cervix/unknown preterm labor; DS born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;crazyanimals- DS, born 30w 1 day due to PTL then PROM, DS #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;SnowPea25 - DS Baby N, born at 32 weeks due to severe pre-e. DD Baby A born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;KatFco- Katrina, DD Abby, 23w6d, unknown reason, DS, born FULL TERM! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;weezie825 - DD, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DS born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IrishSapphire- DS Aidan born close to 31 weeks (was not given a 
reason for him coming early), DD Noelle Elizabeth born at 34 weeks 6 
days 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;becketts - DD Norah, born at 34 weeks due to severe pre-e, DD#2 born at 35w due to IGUR 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jcsntms06, Jen - DD Annabelle, born at 33 weeks due to pre-e, DD#2 born 34w due to PTL 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jaxlynn - DD Leigh, born at 35 weeks due to HELLP, DS born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kimberlyd546 - DS Alex, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e , DS born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;faeriequeeneonwow, Melissa - DD Sophie Jean, born at 30 weeks due
 to non-immune fetal hydrops, low amniotic fluid, and pre-e, DS born 
full term 1/26/12 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;alaratta1-DD Sophia born at 31 weeks due to PTL. DS born full term on 1/6/12 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;beachykeen1723, Rachel - DS Cooper, born at 30 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DD born at 36 weeks 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;beyoga, Deidre - DS Reid, born at 24 weeks due to unkown causes, DD born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;albertabride06 - DS Dylan, born at 32 weeks due to short cervix/PTL, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ShannonSky, Shannon - DD Ellie, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kar5162 - DS, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mrsmikey, April - DS Eli, born at 32 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ijack, Ivory - DD Emma, born at 29 weeks due to placental abruption, DD #2 Quinn born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;njkaren, Karen - DS Brandon, born at 26 weeks due to fetal 
distress due to twin's loss at 20 weeks, DS #2 Wesley born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;LittleD8081 (formerly mrsfriend), Dawn Marie - DS Parker, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DS #2 Braden born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;justme04 - DS Ryker, born at 34 weeks due to severe pre-e and HELLP Syndrome, DS #2 Max born at full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;lemen99, Kathy - DS Andrew, born at 26 weeks due to IC, DS #2 Elliott born at 35 weeks due to PTL and an unknown rash! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kamcfarlane, Kate - DS Ryan, born at 32 weeks due to placenta previa, DD Ellen born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ctrickey03, Christina - DS #1 Michael, born full term, DS #2 
Christian, born at 32 weeks due to polyhydraminos and IUGR, DS #3 
Benjamin, born full term, DD Serenity born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;luvdv8 - DD, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DD #2 Elizabeth born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Clotho!, Janet - DS Robbie, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e, DS #2 
Simon, born at 34 weeks due to PIH and PTL, DS #3 Charles, born at 35 
weeks due to PIH 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mek10976, Megan - DS Simon, born at 32 weeks due to pre-e/pPROM, DS #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sweetpea18, Sara - DD Reese, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e, DD #2 Grier born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;magdalina.h, Maggie - angel baby Aidan, born at 28 weeks due to failed cord, DS #2 Lucas born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hailie, Meg - DS Nolan, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DD Maren born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;FemmeNat01, Natasha - DD Elena and DS Lucas, born at 33 weeks due
 to severe pre-e, DD#2 Alessandra born at 31 weeks due to 
HELLP/placental abruption 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Gwenypher7, Jen - DD Abigail, born at 32 weeks due to HELLP/IUGR, DS Cullen born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Heather1979, Heather - DD Olivia, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM/pre-e, DS George born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tierelieber, Stephanie - DD Charden, born at 30 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DD#2 Adrienne born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IAM4UK - DD Katie, born at 33 weeks due to pre-e/IUGR, twins Abigail and Emily born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sweets2005, Katie - DD Abby and DS Brady, born at 32 weeks due to placenta previa/bleeding, DD #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mrssnflwr - DD born at 32 weeks due to unexplained PTL, DS born at 36 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ShanaNChris, Shana - DD Lily, born at 31 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DS Liam born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Luvpinsanity, Ashley - DS Brennan, born at 35 weeks due to PTL, DD Addison born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;FaithRocks, Kelly - DS Trig, born at 32 weeks due to pre-e, PTL, and placental abruption, DS #2 Grayson born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Denesdia, Diane - DD Zoey, born at 25 weeks due to PTL, DS Ben born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sabloja - DS Hayden, born at 30 weeks due to pPROM, DD Madison born at 36 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;RRHsMom - DS Ryan, born at 35-36 weeks, DD Meghan born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;msalinardi, Margot - DD Angelina, born at 26 weeks due to pre-e, DS Vincent born at 35 weeks due to pre-e, IUGR! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Aidge, Adrienne - DS Sam, born at 29 weeks, DS #2 Ben, born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mhop, Martha - DD Campbell, born at 27 weeks due to pre-e, DD #2 Maggie born full term&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>weight gain issues</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74071563.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 12:58:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74071563</guid><dc:creator>Nita14701</dc:creator><slash:comments>5</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74071563.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74071563</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Feeling defeated right now. Lo had an appt for her weight check last night and only gained 3 oz since her check 1 month ago (she weighs 13 lb 1 oz). We've been batteling with reflux, seeing a gi specialist and switched her from zantac to prilosec last month. She started seeing nutrutionist and in addition to mixing her neosure to 24 calories, we've been putting olive oil in her purees and giving her mashed avocado (and we've been feeding her around the clock since she was discharged from the NICU- she takes her formula well when she's sleeping). &amp;nbsp;So I was definately hoping for a bigger gain last night. Dr. tried to comfort us but it sucks. Has anyone had a similar situation? Did something at some point just "kick in" and your LO started eating more and gaining more weight? &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I guess if things keep going this way she'll do pediasure when she gets old enough for it. I know I should be grateful that she didn't loose weight and I should be happy that she grew an inch, and that&amp;nbsp;she doesn't have any other&amp;nbsp;medical issues&amp;nbsp;but right now, but I can't be thankful,&amp;nbsp;I just feel crappy.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>MyPreemie App</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73972467.aspx</link><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 14:11:15 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:73972467</guid><dc:creator>deedylovescake</dc:creator><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73972467.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=73972467</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Just saw this posted on my fb feed. It looks awesome...I really could have used this app when I was in the nicu, I had no clue what was going on =_= And of course..why would you?? But yah...thought I'd share it for anyone in the NICU right now that might like to use it!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.palasoftware.com/mypreemie.html"&gt;http://www.palasoftware.com/mypreemie.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;----&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;oh i just noticed its $7! O_O Well..totally a good thing to suggest when people ask what sorts of things they can get for their friend/family that just had a preemie!&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Nicu stay help plz</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74022342.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 14:34:15 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74022342</guid><dc:creator>cirisallen</dc:creator><slash:comments>11</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74022342.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74022342</wfw:commentRss><description>Hi ladies, I hope you guys can help. I don't have a preemie but I had Lo at 38 weeks and he had meconium for 2 weeks inside and he aspirated. Our nicu stay is 8 days and counting. I have no idea how to get through this. I can't help him get better, all I can do is be there. How did you ladies manage your nicu stay? Did u go all the time to visit? Multiple times a day? Camp out all day? We been there every 3 hrs to do cares and honestly I'm so tired and emotionally spent, I didn't go last night and I feel terrible. Tia for your insight in this.&lt;br /&gt;P.s mobile bumping sorry. </description></item><item><title>XP/ Twins are here at 31 weeks</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74061423.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 21:28:53 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74061423</guid><dc:creator>Emmakins87</dc:creator><slash:comments>9</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74061423.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74061423</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;div class="PostContentArea" style="padding:0px;font-size:12px;line-height:15px;overflow-x:auto;width:362px;margin:0px;"&gt;Twins made their entrance in to this world yesterday at 6;32 AM, things are ok now, but it was scary for a few hours will go in to detail later.. . They doing very well now, but of course are in the NICU and will be for about the next 6/8 weeks, only time can tell... Praying hard all is we can do now and hope all will be ok. Celia Jane is 3 lb. 8oz, &amp;nbsp;James Henry is 4, lb 2oz. Celia has strawberry blonde hair and big blue eyes ( like me) and James &amp;nbsp;has brown hair and blue eyes like dad. They both have a mighty grip and nice screaming cries and can not wait to see them tomorrow.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea" style="padding:0px;font-size:12px;line-height:15px;overflow-x:auto;width:362px;margin:0px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea" style="padding:0px;font-size:12px;line-height:15px;overflow-x:auto;width:362px;margin:0px;"&gt;I am feeling a little lost as to what to expect. I feel like the doctors are talking at me and not to me. I don't know if I am just overwhelmed but I am just not understanding and my anxiety is through the roof. &amp;nbsp; Can someone talk me through &amp;nbsp;this a little.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea" style="padding:0px;font-size:12px;line-height:15px;overflow-x:auto;width:362px;margin:0px;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>32 weeks and Dilated</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74103862.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 15:47:03 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74103862</guid><dc:creator>mariaanny</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74103862.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74103862</wfw:commentRss><description>Hi everyone, I'm 32 weeks pregnant today. I was admitted to the hospital at 31 weeks dilated at 4cm,&lt;br /&gt;100 effaced  and bulging membrane. &lt;br /&gt;In the last 24 hours the baby has not stopped moving , at moments it's actually painful. The dr's don't want to check me so they don't break my water. I'm not sure if I've dilated more or if all these movements mean she is lowering more each minute. Ha anyone else experienced this? If yes how long did baby stay inside?&lt;br /&gt;I already have a healthy preemie born at 32 weeks for a completely different reason. I was sure I would make it to term with this pregnancy . &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;</description></item><item><title>Research into bedrest and prematurity</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74107359.aspx</link><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 17:40:45 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74107359</guid><dc:creator>KM2008</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74107359.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74107359</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;P&gt;Have to admit I'm a little froggy about this. It's probably the title of the article and then the call back to the title that really got my goat. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;http://www.mommyish.com/2013/05/17/bed-rest-may-not-be-good-for-pregnant-women/ (I haven't the foggiest about how to make that clicky... my sincere apologies) &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Sounds like the sample group was culled from a group of high-risk pregnancies, to boot. I feel like a study that assigned bed rest randomly to women with (1) no history of premature births and (2) no high-risk complications otherwise associated with premature births - would be closer to what these folks want this study to show. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;I was writing a nice long comment to this piece on Mommyish and my phone pretty much shut that idea down, so I am now having impotent rage, and just wanted to share. With my PTL at 25 weeks and contractions any time I stood up for too long or moved too much, I attribute the additional 5-6 weeks of extra cooking of my boys to bed rest before PPROM at 31 weeks. &lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;Really looking forward to know-it-alls telling me that my bed rest "caused" the premature birth of my twins. Not like I don't always have the sting of thinking my body failed me. Guess I should've gotten "off my butt."&lt;/P&gt;Edited to add para breaks because all of technology is working against me today. </description></item><item><title>Full term pregnancy after previous preterm labor?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74048645.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 14:28:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74048645</guid><dc:creator>JandM524</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74048645.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74048645</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;Has anyone had full term pregnancies after having a preemie? &amp;nbsp;My husband and I are wanting to try for a second but we are going in a little nervous because we had our first at 27 w 6 d and had a two month NICU stay. &amp;nbsp;There was no apparent cause, it was spontaneous. &amp;nbsp;I know it could have been worse and we are so lucky and thankful to have our little beauty but it was stressful and I couldn't imagine going through it again with a little one at home. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I guess the point of this post is to hear of your experiences and get some positive thoughts going. &amp;nbsp;:) &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Steroid Shots?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73965855.aspx</link><pubDate>Sat, 11 May 2013 00:11:48 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:73965855</guid><dc:creator>MrsCaseyK</dc:creator><slash:comments>23</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73965855.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=73965855</wfw:commentRss><description>I'm not on this board. But I admire all of you and creep on here often and pray for all of you and your tiny ones. :)&amp;nbsp;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I'm 27 weeks with IC (cerclage at 21.6) and IU (lots of "BH" contractions, ugh) My question is there any reason why I shouldn't have steroid shots? My doc says he doesn't do them unless labor is imminent. But what if we don't have 48 hours from when I go in to when they are born...? I suppose I wouldn't have them every two weeks until they get here, but sometimes that does sound appealing. Any advice would be appreciated. I'll be talking to the doc a week from today and would be curious what you all had to say before we talk it over.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;When did you have them? How many rounds? Did it help? Or any other info you'd care to share...&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Thank you, Thank you!&lt;/div&gt;</description></item><item><title>O2 at home question</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74005979.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 19:20:57 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74005979</guid><dc:creator>Usm123</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74005979.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74005979</wfw:commentRss><description>What was your home o2 road like? Ever have to increase? &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;DS2 came home at 4mo actual 1 month adjusted on .25 liters of continuous O2 in Dec. He was diagnosed with Pulmonary Vein Stenosis and pulmonary hypertension shortly after coming home. Our pulmo let the cardiologist take the lead because of the underlying heart condition. We increased his O2 to .75 liters at the end of March. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2 weeks later he had a heart catheter and angioplasty done to treat the stenosis and hypertension. We went to NOLA to have it done by a specialist in PVS. He commented multiple times after the cath about how bad his lungs looked, presumably from BPD. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last week we went in to have an outpatient endoscope done because of GI issues. While in recovery he was requiring 2 liters of O2 and we ended up being admitted for three days. He was happy as could be and we were finally discharged on 1.5 liters of o2 and a home pulse ox. He is still sating mid 90's and the pulmo is very concerned. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He is now 9mo actual 6 mo adjusted and 15 lbs. the cardiologist is happy from his standpoint that the hypertension is much lower. The pulmno said he has never had a patient with PVS and he plans to come an expert before our appt next week. He is talking about doing a lung biopsy to test for ILD. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sorry this got so long. It's been so overwhelming and the cardiologist and pulmonologist both looked at me last week and said "I don't know what to do or what to expect with him." </description></item><item><title>**strudel82**</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74079650.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:56:49 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74079650</guid><dc:creator>PhillyGal34</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74079650.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74079650</wfw:commentRss><description>I know you have a big milestone coming up in a few days... I hope you are all doing well and enjoy the day... Happy birthday little one!!! &lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Childcare Question</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74061185.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 21:17:07 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74061185</guid><dc:creator>MandaS08</dc:creator><slash:comments>4</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74061185.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74061185</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;At our last two u/s it looks like the baby boy's growth has dropped off, and unless things change, we are planning a C Section for 34 weeks.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We had previously been planning on trying to find an in home day care for the twins when I go back to work in September-with them coming earlier than planned, is this something we need to reconsider?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don't want to put them at risk if being around a small # of other children would be detrimental to their health, and we could look into a nanny instead.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mostly likely I will wait until after they are born and see exactly what their situation is before making any concrete child care plans, but I wanted to see your thoughts.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>S/O preemie clothes</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74045378.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 12:25:41 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74045378</guid><dc:creator>jcsntms06</dc:creator><slash:comments>10</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74045378.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74045378</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;The other week I was cleaning out some of the baby clothes to take a donation to the NICU and I found only one preemie outfit. Hubby and I decided to get a picture of the girls with the outfit. &lt;img src="http://i855.photobucket.com/albums/ab112/jentim2006/preemieclothes_zps0b8173d5.jpg" height="268" width="350"&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Annabelle (left) asked the next morning if we could keep the outfit for her baby doll. I obviously let her. It fits her American baby doll perfectly. Just a small reminder how little my girls were and how much they have grown.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>iron?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74052962.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 16:42:41 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74052962</guid><dc:creator>brachysira</dc:creator><slash:comments>2</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74052962.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74052962</wfw:commentRss><description>Probably like many of you, we have been putting a few scoops of preemie formula in a bottle of breastmilk every day in addition to our regular breastfeeding so LO can get some extra calories. &amp;nbsp;This has iron, and we also add iron via dropper. &amp;nbsp;Although in her early days, she'd have a poopy diaper every 5 minutes, at 4 months, she takes about 4 days to go and has a lot of straining. &amp;nbsp;Her doctor says this is fine but to watch for blood. &amp;nbsp;The last few diapers look like typical bf diapers but there are some thicker black globs. &amp;nbsp;They almost look like cat fur, but they're not. &amp;nbsp;I read this could be caused by iron, but how can I tell if this is iron or blood? &amp;nbsp;Thanks!</description></item><item><title>micro moms</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74024465.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 15:43:37 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74024465</guid><dc:creator>thishappyhouse</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74024465.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74024465</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;When did your kids truly start walking? &amp;nbsp;V has been cruising since december and taking steps for about 5 weeks and while she seems to be getting better the progress towards truly walking seems painfully slow. &amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;She is a former 25 weeker, now 18.5 months. &amp;nbsp; She did not experience any brain bleeds. &amp;nbsp;We get PT 1x/week. &amp;nbsp;We have push toys galore. &amp;nbsp;any insight?&lt;span style="font-size:10pt;"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>jbraden</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74055114.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 17:49:40 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74055114</guid><dc:creator>deedylovescake</dc:creator><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74055114.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74055114</wfw:commentRss><description>ygpm :P&lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Does anyone need Enfaport?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74054904.aspx</link><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 17:43:57 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74054904</guid><dc:creator>bridgemh78</dc:creator><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74054904.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74054904</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;I have just over two cases of Enfaport expiring in June and later. It is yours for the taking or pay for shipping. We are in the Chicagoland area.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Thanks,&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bridget&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Chances of having another preemie?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74004547.aspx</link><pubDate>Mon, 13 May 2013 18:38:51 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74004547</guid><dc:creator>alphaphi98</dc:creator><slash:comments>13</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74004547.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74004547</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;p&gt;My DD just turned 8 months yesterday. She's my 1st child. I had her unexpectedly at 32 weeks due to unknown PTL. I had no idea she'd come early. My entire pregnancy was so easy &amp;amp; I had no problems. Luckily DD is healthy &amp;amp; never had any health concerns.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt; Here's my question: what's the chances of me having another preemie? I hear there's a higher chance. I want to start TTC again &amp;amp; don't want to go through a preemie &amp;amp; NICU again.. How many of you had preemies again?&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Milestones</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74025721.aspx</link><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 16:21:40 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:74025721</guid><dc:creator>JennZK</dc:creator><slash:comments>6</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/74025721.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=74025721</wfw:commentRss><description>Ok, so I know I need to go by adjusted age with milestones, and even then they will do things on their own time but my PT is really stressing me out. I have a 26 weeker who is now 8 1/2 mo. old so 5 1/2 mo. adjusted and she is on my case about how he should be doing more. He doesn't roll back to front yet, but tries hard, and he can't sit steady in a bumbo or with a boppy yet because his trunk isn't quite strong enough. Should I actually be worried? I really like our PT and she comes every 3 weeks or so so that right there shows she's not too worried since she doesn't want to come more often, but she always seems worried. At the same time, I am constantly having to remind her of his adjusted age. I've been stressing about this and googling milestones like twice a day from different sources because she has me freaked out. Advice please ladies! </description></item><item><title>SCHULME2?</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73930065.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 17:28:51 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:73930065</guid><dc:creator>jenniferw91</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73930065.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=73930065</wfw:commentRss><description>Any updates on her and her baby boy?? </description></item><item><title>Pregnant &amp; TTC Check In 5/09/13</title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73919906.aspx</link><pubDate>Thu, 09 May 2013 12:01:58 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:73919906</guid><dc:creator>punky917</dc:creator><slash:comments>18</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73919906.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=73919906</wfw:commentRss><description>&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;p&gt;Welcome to the check in group for Pregnant After Preemie! This group is 
also for those who are actively trying to conceive, planning on it, or 
just thinking about it... 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;So, list your first name, due date if you're pregnant or ttc 
timeline, preemie's name and gestational age at birth as well as the 
reason for their prematurity. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;-------------------------------------------------&lt;/b&gt; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&lt;b&gt;Last week Updates: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;Congratulations to komurphy who gave birth to DS-he was 31 weeks exactly and weighed 3lbs. 9oz. After a couple of weeks in the hospital, she started to bleed and drs discovered that she was fully dilated with bulging membranes. Because of the threat of the prolapsed cord, they decided to do an emergency CS. She reports that DS is doing well in the NICU. Please keep her and LO in your thoughts and prayers for a short and uneventful NICU stay. komurphy-please keep us updated on how he is doing. &lt;br&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;CurlingRocks: had AS and have to do a follow up on the heart since LO was not cooperating with that part; Team Green! Also felt outside kicks for the first time!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;adamnkel: appt was on Monday-how did it go?&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;TriciaandSean: passed last pg milestone! She only has 1 more progesterone shot to go and 2 more weeks before reaching FT status!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;sdtchica13:
 also passed last pg milestone! shots are working and cervix is behaving. Next big milestone is 32 weeks!&lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;Mommy 2CB: has reached 35 weeks and will have last NST. So close to being FT! Way to go! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;tlk432: appts with OB and MFM went well and LO measured right on track for 30 weeks at 3lbs.2oz! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="PostContentArea"&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;b&gt;-----------------------------------------------&lt;/b&gt; 
&lt;/div&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Pregnant:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;BabyRolston1-Lindy- DD Natalie born at 29w 5d due to pre-e, DS due 5/20/13 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;TriciaandSean-Kieran born at 34.5 weeks PTL, #2 EDD 6/8/13.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mommy2CB, Kristin- DS born at 33 weeks 5 days due to PTL, baby#2 EDD 6/12/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Punky917-DS Noah born at 26 weeks due to pPROM; baby#2 EDD 7/1/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sdtchica13, Carrie-DD Corrine Reese born at 29 weeks 6 days due to a placental abruption and pPROM, baby#2 EDD 7/11/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;tlk432: Trish-DS born at 34.5 weeks due to pProm and IC; baby #2 EDD 7/11/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jlemo, Jenny- DS Hunter born at 35 weeks PTL, baby #2 EDD 7/18/13&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MamaAnnabird, Anna -DS Isaac born 34 weeks due to PROM 8/23/11, baby #2 EDD 8/22/13

&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kwells1-DS George born at 31 weeks and 3 days due to PTL; baby #2 EDD 8/28/13 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;adamnkel: DD born at 35 weeks due to pre-e; Baby #2 EDD 8/31/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;L&amp;amp;R70707 - DS born 34w6days due to unexplained PTL, Baby#2 due 9/2/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;CurlingRocks, DS was born at 31w 3d due to officially to PTL 
following pPROM at 28w, but mama was on SBR for 6 months due to SCH, 
FVL, and Placental Abruption at 13w 4d; DD was a MMC delivered at 18w 
due to septate uterus; baby #3 due 9/17/13&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;littlerockflower-DS born at 29w due to Pprom, Baby#3 due 9/20/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bruton8288: DD Victoria born at 36w due to fetal distress,very low glucose levels,decrease fetal movement; Baby #2 EDD 9/22/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lyns0629: DD born at 31 weeks due to unexplained PTL; Baby #2 11/09/13&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Bookywormone: DD born at 33w5d due to pre-e; Baby #2 EDD 12/12/13 &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;hjweber-&lt;/span&gt; DD Hannah born 34w5d due to unknown cause; Baby #2 EDD 12/20/2013 &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;vsalt31: DS Henry born at 31 3d due to unexplained prom; Baby #2 EDD 12/2013&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;TTCing: &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;michelleigh24, Michelle TTC since 11/2/12, Jasper born at 36 weeks, due to short cervix, heavy bleeding through out pregnancy.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;erikaja6, Erika - DS Jordan, born at 33 weeks due to IC 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;*Sweet Pea*, Jamie - DD Skylar, born at 29 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MaMaSzcz, Erica - DS, Grayson, born at 33 weeks due to prom and bifurcated uterus 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MariaWaters- DD Gwenyth born at 34 weeks due to unexplained PTL. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;DrRx- DD Adalyn born 26wd due to Pprom&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GirlyGirl319, Danielle-DS was born at 33w4d due to infection in placenta &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Thinking about/Planning on TTCing: &lt;/b&gt;
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;lolen88, Lauren - DS Tanner, born at 32 weeks due to unknown causes 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;OscarQ- Alison, TTC in 2012, DS Kevin born at 26 weeks due to pre-e. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;GLGB- DS was born at 33 weeks due to unexplained preterm labor 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;nayandjosh- Renee- DS, Christian, born at 27 weeks due to abruption, TTC fall 2012 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Mybb- DS born at 28w1d due to severe pre-eclampsia 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;APRILYN501- DD Kaylee born at 32 weeks 3 days after PROM 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ajgibson-Janeen, DD born at 25 weeks due to eclampsia. Pregnancy #2 ended in miscarriage 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span class="inlineLink"&gt;cfitz16, &lt;/span&gt;DS was born at 36 weeks due to pre-term labor. DD was born at 34 weeks when my 
water broke after being monitored closely, pelvic rest and progesterone 
shots.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Mommies (again)!&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;komurphy- DS &amp;amp; DD born at 27 weeks; DS born at 31 weeks due to bulging membranes and threat of a prolapsed cord&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jteneback, DD was born at 34 weeks 3 days after pPROM; DS was born at 35 weeks!&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;

&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sucrets4, Danielle - DD Emmalynn born at 33w due to pPROM, DD#2 born at 35w 5d due to Pprom&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kelly321- My DD R was born at 34w1d due to HELLP, DD#2 born FULL TERM! &lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IncogNeato-DD born at 36 weeks due to PPROM, DD#2 born full term! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;light52- DS2 was born at 35w 5d for no known reason, #3 born at 35w 4d&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ericalee27, Erica - DS Quinn, born at 35w,4d due to pre-e. DS born full term! &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;eSynergy- DS was born at 36 weeks --- the reason is unexplained (just went into labor early), DS born full term.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Cara03-Cara, DS Jacob born at 24 weeks due to IC. DS Lucas born at 36w 2d&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Angie637-DS Peyton born at 33 weeks due to pPROM. #2 and #3 born at 35w due to PPROM.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lucy460-Lucy, DS #1 born at 35 weeks 4 days due to HELLP, DD born at 36w &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Delphiaraven-Stacey, DS born at 34 weeks due to PROM, DS born full term. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&amp;nbsp;Lili_h, Lili-DS Matthew born at 34 weeks 4 days due to PTL. DD born full term. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Amercana-  identical twin girls born at 34 weeks 5 days, DS born full term.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Wally3, Eve- DS Johnny born 34w 3 days PROM, DS#2 born full term.&amp;nbsp; 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;MeNV-Mel, Phinny born @ 34 weeks after water broke due to large fibroids, DS#2 born at 34w. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kadyra-DS born at 36 weeks due to severe IUGR, DS was born at 32 weeks &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Damabo80- DD#1 born at 31w due to HELLP/pre-e. DS born full term&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;katieguth- DD Melanie born at 31 weeks due to Severe Pre-E. DS born 8/15/12. 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;nat6102006-first DD born at 32 weeks due to shortened cervix/unknown preterm labor; DS born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;crazyanimals- DS, born 30w 1 day due to PTL then PROM, DS #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;SnowPea25 - DS Baby N, born at 32 weeks due to severe pre-e. DD Baby A born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;KatFco- Katrina, DD Abby, 23w6d, unknown reason, DS, born FULL TERM! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;weezie825 - DD, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DS born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IrishSapphire- DS Aidan born close to 31 weeks (was not given a 
reason for him coming early), DD Noelle Elizabeth born at 34 weeks 6 
days 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;becketts - DD Norah, born at 34 weeks due to severe pre-e, DD#2 born at 35w due to IGUR 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jcsntms06, Jen - DD Annabelle, born at 33 weeks due to pre-e, DD#2 born 34w due to PTL 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;jaxlynn - DD Leigh, born at 35 weeks due to HELLP, DS born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Kimberlyd546 - DS Alex, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e , DS born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;faeriequeeneonwow, Melissa - DD Sophie Jean, born at 30 weeks due
 to non-immune fetal hydrops, low amniotic fluid, and pre-e, DS born 
full term 1/26/12 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;alaratta1-DD Sophia born at 31 weeks due to PTL. DS born full term on 1/6/12 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;beachykeen1723, Rachel - DS Cooper, born at 30 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DD born at 36 weeks 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;beyoga, Deidre - DS Reid, born at 24 weeks due to unkown causes, DD born full term 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;albertabride06 - DS Dylan, born at 32 weeks due to short cervix/PTL, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ShannonSky, Shannon - DD Ellie, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kar5162 - DS, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mrsmikey, April - DS Eli, born at 32 weeks due to pPROM, DD born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ijack, Ivory - DD Emma, born at 29 weeks due to placental abruption, DD #2 Quinn born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;njkaren, Karen - DS Brandon, born at 26 weeks due to fetal 
distress due to twin's loss at 20 weeks, DS #2 Wesley born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;LittleD8081 (formerly mrsfriend), Dawn Marie - DS Parker, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DS #2 Braden born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;justme04 - DS Ryker, born at 34 weeks due to severe pre-e and HELLP Syndrome, DS #2 Max born at full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;lemen99, Kathy - DS Andrew, born at 26 weeks due to IC, DS #2 Elliott born at 35 weeks due to PTL and an unknown rash! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;kamcfarlane, Kate - DS Ryan, born at 32 weeks due to placenta previa, DD Ellen born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ctrickey03, Christina - DS #1 Michael, born full term, DS #2 
Christian, born at 32 weeks due to polyhydraminos and IUGR, DS #3 
Benjamin, born full term, DD Serenity born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;luvdv8 - DD, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM, DD #2 Elizabeth born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Clotho!, Janet - DS Robbie, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e, DS #2 
Simon, born at 34 weeks due to PIH and PTL, DS #3 Charles, born at 35 
weeks due to PIH 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mek10976, Megan - DS Simon, born at 32 weeks due to pre-e/pPROM, DS #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sweetpea18, Sara - DD Reese, born at 34 weeks due to pre-e, DD #2 Grier born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;magdalina.h, Maggie - angel baby Aidan, born at 28 weeks due to failed cord, DS #2 Lucas born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Hailie, Meg - DS Nolan, born at 33 weeks due to pPROM, DD Maren born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;FemmeNat01, Natasha - DD Elena and DS Lucas, born at 33 weeks due
 to severe pre-e, DD#2 Alessandra born at 31 weeks due to 
HELLP/placental abruption 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Gwenypher7, Jen - DD Abigail, born at 32 weeks due to HELLP/IUGR, DS Cullen born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Heather1979, Heather - DD Olivia, born at 34 weeks due to pPROM/pre-e, DS George born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Tierelieber, Stephanie - DD Charden, born at 30 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DD#2 Adrienne born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;IAM4UK - DD Katie, born at 33 weeks due to pre-e/IUGR, twins Abigail and Emily born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sweets2005, Katie - DD Abby and DS Brady, born at 32 weeks due to placenta previa/bleeding, DD #2 born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mrssnflwr - DD born at 32 weeks due to unexplained PTL, DS born at 36 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;ShanaNChris, Shana - DD Lily, born at 31 weeks due to pre-e/HELLP, DS Liam born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Luvpinsanity, Ashley - DS Brennan, born at 35 weeks due to PTL, DD Addison born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;FaithRocks, Kelly - DS Trig, born at 32 weeks due to pre-e, PTL, and placental abruption, DS #2 Grayson born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Denesdia, Diane - DD Zoey, born at 25 weeks due to PTL, DS Ben born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;sabloja - DS Hayden, born at 30 weeks due to pPROM, DD Madison born at 36 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;RRHsMom - DS Ryan, born at 35-36 weeks, DD Meghan born full term! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;msalinardi, Margot - DD Angelina, born at 26 weeks due to pre-e, DS Vincent born at 35 weeks due to pre-e, IUGR! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Aidge, Adrienne - DS Sam, born at 29 weeks, DS #2 Ben, born at 35 weeks! 
&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;mhop, Martha - DD Campbell, born at 27 weeks due to pre-e, DD #2 Maggie born full term&lt;/p&gt;&lt;br&gt;</description></item><item><title>Happy Mother's Day </title><link>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73983815.aspx</link><pubDate>Sun, 12 May 2013 12:07:19 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="false">b16960c2-08ff-48dc-93ce-1f3c6b289aa0:73983815</guid><dc:creator>PhillyGal34</dc:creator><slash:comments>7</slash:comments><comments>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/73983815.aspx</comments><wfw:commentRss>http://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/commentrss.aspx?SectionID=4236745&amp;PostID=73983815</wfw:commentRss><description>I know that some of you weren't expecting to be moms this year on Mother's Day and to those still in the nicu this may be especially hard. Please know that there are people throwing extra thoughts and prayers your way today.  &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Happy Mother's Day!! &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;How Preemie Moms Are Chosen &lt;br /&gt;by Erma Bombeck&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Did you ever wonder how the mothers of premature babies are chosen? &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Somehow, I visualize God hovering over Earth, selecting his instruments for propagation with great care and deliberation. As he observes, he instructs his angels to take notes in a giant ledger. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"Armstrong, Beth, son. Patron Saint, Matthew. &lt;br /&gt; Forrest, Marjorie, daughter. Patron Saint, Celia. &lt;br /&gt;Rutledge, Carrie, twins. Patron Saint...give her Gerard. He's used to profanity." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;Finally, he passes a name to an angel and smiles. "Give her a preemie." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The angel is curious. "Why this one, God? She's so happy." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"Exactly," smiles God. "Could I give a premature baby a mother who knows no laughter? That would be cruel." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"But does she have the patience?" asks the angel. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"I don't want her to have too much patience, or she'll drown in a sea of selfpity and despair.  Once the shock and resentment wear off, she'll handle it. I watched her today. She has that sense of self and independence so rare and so necessary in a mother. You see, the child I'm going to give her has a world of its own. She has to make it live in her world, and that's not going to be easy." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;"But Lord, I don't think she even believes in you." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;God smiles. "No matter, I can fix that. This one is perfect She has just the right amount of selfishness." &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;The angel gasps, "Selfishness?! Is that a virtue?" &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;God nods. "If she can't separate herself from the child occasionally, she will never survive. Yes, here is a woman whom I will bless with a child less than perfect. She doesn't know it yet, but she is to be envied. She will never take for granted a spoken word. She will never consider a step ordinary. When her child says momma for the first time, she will be witness to a miracle and know it. I will permit her to see clearly the things I see ignorance, cruelty, prejudice and allow her to rise above them. She will never be alone. I will be at her side every minute of every day of her life because she is doing my work as surely as she is here by my side." &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"And what about her Patron Saint?" asks the angel, his pen poised in the air. &lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt;God smiles. "A mirror will suffice."</description></item></channel></rss>