WTF? I would be royally pissed off and would show up in person! But that's just me I'm a total biitch when I am mad! I hope they get this fixed for you in time!
HA! You and I are too much alike mari! When my DH called yesterday, the first thing he said was "You'd better be very thankful you're not talking to my wife." The thing that pissses me off even more is that this is two totally separate doctor's offices. The bloodwork was through my OBGYN and the IUI is through my RE. So we're dealing with two jackazzes that can't do their jobs correctly.
ETA: AAAHHH! I just saw your siggie! No cancer cells for your DH?! What do they think it is? I am so happy for you guys!!