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05-13-2011 at 2:33 PM
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Recommended wait btw pregnancies?

I had my post-pardum visit with my OB today and everything went well. I'm fully cleared for all normal activity, but one thing surprised me... she told me that she recommends waiting 14 months before trying to conceive again, because she wants to see at least 2 years between deliveries. 

Really, this doesn't interfere too horribly with our timeline, but I was surprised.

Has anyone else been told a recommended time they should wait between pregnancies? Is this standard advice?

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05-13-2011 at 2:40 PM
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Mine told me 18 months...

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05-13-2011 at 2:41 PM
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I'm not sure if this is part of her reasoning or how common this is, but I did read that sometimes if babies are conceived too close together they could be at risk for preterm labor.  I remembered this because DH was 2 months early and is 9 months younger than his sister.

This is from the March of Dimes website:

"Short time period between pregnancies [One study found that an interval of less than 18 months between birth and the beginning of the next pregnancy increased the risk of preterm labor, though the greatest risk was with intervals shorter than 6 months. A woman should discuss with her provider the best pregnancy spacing for her.]" 

 
05-13-2011 at 2:42 PM
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I've never heard of that. We talked to our OB about getting pregnant within the year and she was completely on board.

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05-13-2011 at 2:46 PM
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My OB said it depends on how your body heals from the first one.  At my 6 week check-up she gave me the go ahead to start ttc again. I am not willing to do that this soon, however. So, no it doesn’t seem like there is standard advice.  Maybe they just base it on what they have seen work out best in their practice?

Personally I am aiming for 2 years between deliveries. 

 
05-13-2011 at 2:57 PM
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My midwife told me two years was the recommended period, because even a normal, healthy pregnancy takes a toll on your body, and you want the next baby to be conceived in healthy conditions as well.  But after this advice, my mw threw in the comment, "but you're young and healthy, so whatever!".  I got pg again right before my son's first birthday because I'll be 34 this summer, we may want three kids in total, and I don't want to be having kids when I'm 40 so we're just going for it all at once.

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05-13-2011 at 3:02 PM
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JAnalynn3767:

My OB said it depends on how your body heals from the first one.  At my 6 week check-up she gave me the go ahead to start ttc again. I am not willing to do that this soon, however. So, no it doesn’t seem like there is standard advice.  Maybe they just base it on what they have seen work out best in their practice?

Personally I am aiming for 2 years between deliveries. 

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05-13-2011 at 3:21 PM
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I had a c-section and my OB told me to wait 12-18 months. She said that it was only due to the healing .
05-13-2011 at 3:28 PM
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My dr advised two years before getting pregnant again but specifically said it was because I needed a CS this time. A pregnancy within 24 months would increase the change of a uterine rupture.

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05-13-2011 at 4:08 PM
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I had a CS and my doctor said I could get pg again whenever I want.

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05-13-2011 at 4:29 PM
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A recent study at Columbia found an increased risk of autism in more closely spaced pregnancies - maybe your doc is basing his/her advice on this new info?

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/40990120/ns/health-kids_and_parenting/t/autism-risk-rises-closely-spaced-pregnancies-study-finds/ 


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05-13-2011 at 4:40 PM
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Most women who breastfeed exclusively and do not pump or introduce pacis (think LAM method) aren't able to conceive again until their baby is over a year old.  "Natural" spacing between children seems to be about two years apart.  It makes sense then that your body isn't ready for pregnancy again until around 18 months (give or take a few), especially if you are nursing a child.
05-13-2011 at 4:52 PM
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I haven't had my 6 week check yet, but when I was discussing with the nurse about timing (before I had delivered- just out of curiosity) she said just a year between actual deliveries. We'll see what the Dr. says...

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05-13-2011 at 5:54 PM
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My dr told me there's no wait between vaginal deliveries. I don't want too wait too long before #2 but agree my body needs a little break and DD deserves some time and attention first. 

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05-13-2011 at 6:47 PM
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My MW told me 18mos b/w babies due to c/s.

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05-13-2011 at 9:03 PM
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no, but I just had my 2nd. My first is almost 3.5 years. I highly recommend this age. DS1 understands a lot and for the most part is potty trained. It's a great age to have them apart.

I wanted them 2 years apart but 2-3 is horrible for tantrums. I couldn't imagine dealing with teething and tantrums. 

05-13-2011 at 9:20 PM
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mrs.jenRN:
I had a CS and my doctor said I could get pg again whenever I want.

 

Mine did too, and he said he wouldn't even consider anything but a vbac for me, unless I have another breech baby.


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05-13-2011 at 11:11 PM
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I had my 6w PP check today as well. I was told 18-24 months before I conceive again and she suggested I lean more towards the 2yr mark. I'm guessing it's because I was pg with twins and lost one? Or maybe she's thinking of my sanity because I have a higher risk of conceiving twins again and Aubrey is already a handful by herself lol.

My OB said if I was to conceive too early it would increase the risk of placenta issues.


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05-14-2011 at 6:04 AM
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05-14-2011 at 9:40 AM
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Interesting.  After DS1, the doc didn't say anything.  After DS2, at 6 weeks the doc said I could TTC any time.  Not that I will, just that I could.

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05-14-2011 at 4:13 PM
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This is the American SIDS institute recommendation to reduce the risk of SIDS:

"Wait at least one year between the birth of a child and the next pregnancy.The shorter the interval between pregnancies, the higher the SIDS rate."


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