I am glad that went as well as could be expected.  Make sure that you keep evidence of his agreeing to everything.  I send you all the amicable divorce dust possible and ability to keep your house.  

Hang in there! 

((hugs))

I'm glad to hear that so far it's going as smoothly as it has. I'm sure this is so

Tough on you. I hope things turn out for the best for all of you. Lots of t&p to you.  

You have .

{{{hugs}}}

mrs.wildman:

Sending lots of dust your way. I can't imagine that ANY of this would ever come easy to anyone, and it sounds like you handled it with as much grace as possible.

Exactly. Hugs to you.  

mrs.wildman:

Sending lots of dust your way. I can't imagine that ANY of this would ever come easy to anyone, and it sounds like you handled it with as much grace as possible.

Wow. It's funny that you posted because I was thinking about you today and wondering how you were. I wish you tons and tons of amicable dust with the divorce. 

I want you to know that his drinking is not your fault. The fact that he blames you is an indication of his level of denial. But regardless of what you do/did, he is fully to blame for his behavior. He is in control of his drinking and you are not to blame. If you want someone to go to al anon, I have been itching to go and haven't. Let me know if you want company. Big hugs!!

PMBridetobe:

I am glad that went as well as could be expected.  Make sure that you keep evidence of his agreeing to everything.  I send you all the amicable divorce dust possible and ability to keep your house.  

Hang in there! 

I am sorry that you are going through this, but it is what is going to be best for you and your DD.

Lots of dust for you!!!

I think you've given this a lot of thought and you are absolutely doing the right thing for you and dd.  It's ridiculous that he'd even try to blame you and tell you it's because you got fat?  Really???  That's just unacceptable.  I hope he doesn't impose body image issues onto your dd. 

I wish you all the strength in the world I know this will all be tough and I hope he doesn't show his true asshattery colors before everything is final.  This needs to be easy for you... you deserve that. 

MrsRosie:

I'm so sorry he said those things. Please, please, please try not to dwell on them. It's going to get better.

ditto. Tons of smooth sailing keeping your house dust. 

mrs.wildman:

Sending lots of dust your way. I can't imagine that ANY of this would ever come easy to anyone, and it sounds like you handled it with as much grace as possible.

Ditto.  Lots of dust to you!

MrsRosie:

I'm so sorry he said those things. Please, please, please try not to dwell on them. It's going to get better.

Rosie said it better than I could.  Loads of good thoughts and prayers coming your way.   (((hugs)))

SareBear30:

Wow. It's funny that you posted because I was thinking about you today and wondering how you were. I wish you tons and tons of amicable dust with the divorce. 

I want you to know that his drinking is not your fault. The fact that he blames you is an indication of his level of denial. But regardless of what you do/did, he is fully to blame for his behavior. He is in control of his drinking and you are not to blame. If you want someone to go to al anon, I have been itching to go and haven't. Let me know if you want company. Big hugs!!

Absolutely this.  Lots of dust that everything remains amicable!