We did find out and we did tell.
After I knew, I wanted to wait to tell everyone until the Baby was born, but my husband couldn't help himself, so before he could go blab, he gave me an hour to make a Gender Reveal video. I used a Dumbo clip and put it on Youtube.
I'm super happy with my decision. In the end, as you all said, it was just a personal decision anyway. I am happy knowing and this way I get to tell people over and over and over again :) They may not be super excited, but I'm excited about sharing the news. In the end telling them -- even when I was planning the scratch off's ect.-- was really more about my excitement about sharing the news than me thinking everyone "cared so much" about what I was having. Certain people, like my mom and mil, cared about as much as I did.
Really I don't care about the gift portion. I mean we're not big on super sporty stuff either, but baby shower gift giving is like anything else. I only brought it up earlier because everyone kept telling me to be concerned about it.
My friend wanted to do a Name reveal at my shower, but that I think I will wait on. People are way more opinionated about names than they are gender.