In the mornings I take Zac to my parents house and put my nephew and him on the bus because he is open enrolled. And usually my DH has school in the am. He is in the police academy. So not only does he not help much w Zac but he doesn't work much either. But he always has time to hunt. Ugh.
In my book this isn't okay. If you are working and bringing in the majority of the money, then he should be helping more with parenting and around the house. I would make this expectation very clear. Ever since I started working a second job weekends in addition to my full time job, I have told my hubs that he needs to help more around the house, so he has been helping with laundry and cleaning. Yes, it's important that he gets SOME time to do what he likes... Within reason.