Plus, do you REALLY want ALL gender specific stuff? I know I didn't. This kind of party, though, seems like that's ALL you'll get.
I don't know. I like finding out the sex of friends babies, but there is something aboutfinding out from THEM that I enjoy. I think I'd find it odd to be told "Jim and Jane are having a girl, but THEY don't know. We're going to reveal to them at the shower!!".
It just makes me go "eh.... ok".