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11-09-2012 at 10:45 AM
Dani428
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Sex Drive?

Sorry for being so blunt (not like me really) but I'm so curious. Does anyone have any sex drive? I'm almost 6 weeks and nothing!  Poor hubby.
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11-09-2012 at 10:58 AM
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Your not the only one. I feel so bad for hubby
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11-09-2012 at 10:58 AM
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I wish I had a sex drive... Mine went away around week 5 and hasn't come back... I have to force myself to be intimate, which isnt like me.  I feel bad for my DH b/c he has to put up with my craziness, my MS, ect. and isn't getting nearly enough nookie.

It gets better tho... I'm not completely turned off anymore haha.
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11-09-2012 at 11:11 AM
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It will come back, just remember you can take care of him in other ways.   
 
11-09-2012 at 11:17 AM
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I wish I didn't have a sex drive! Mine is intense right now. But we did IVF and haven't done anything in about a month (some of it was doctor ordered, some was discomfort). It's just about all I think about now, but I'm on endometrin suppositories, so that's just not happening. 

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11-09-2012 at 11:19 AM
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Dresch25:
It will come back, just remember you can take care of him in other ways.   

 

This!
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11-09-2012 at 11:37 AM
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Mine's pretty normal. Everyone's different.
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11-09-2012 at 11:58 AM
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Sex drive?? What's that!? Nope I lost it about at 5 weeks. I'm 11 weeks now and nothing still. Dh wants it all the time too! We have sex about once a week. I usually enjoy it once we get started but I never want too at first.
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11-09-2012 at 12:16 PM
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mystererae:
Mine's pretty normal. Everyone's different.

This.  Mine stayed pretty much the same.   
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11-09-2012 at 1:11 PM
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I've been going to bed at like 7pm every night looking like the swamp thing... not super conducive to lovin'

Although when we work it out, I have experienced the more intense "pregnancy orgasm". TMI?

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11-09-2012 at 2:22 PM
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I have been horny as h*ll to the point of having very intimate and realistic dreams, I was the same way during my first pregnancy. At least off and on, I know there were times when I couldn't even be hugged I was so uncomfortable.

 
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11-09-2012 at 5:45 PM
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AngieG87:

I've been going to bed at like 7pm every night looking like the swamp thing... not super conducive to lovin'

Although when we work it out, I have experienced the more intense "pregnancy orgasm". TMI?

 

No, not TMI....my drive got insane last week and that "O" was mind blowing....oh hope all you ladies can get back on track and experience that Pregnancy O........ you'll be happy you did :)
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11-09-2012 at 5:52 PM
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Nothing. Before I was PG, I was always into it! Now I'm too tired. My DH has the patience of a saint. He hasn't said a word. 
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11-09-2012 at 7:57 PM
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We have sex about every other day.  It will probably be more often whenever I stop feeling like crap.  I had a super intense sex drive when I was pregnant with DD too.
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11-09-2012 at 8:57 PM
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Dresch25:
It will come back, just remember you can take care of him in other ways.   

UG...the thought alone of those "other ways" triggered my gag reflex.  I normally enjoy such activities but when I was experiences the worst of my m/s (weeks 6-11) it was like my lady bits  just closed up shop.  I think we had sex once, maybe twice.

Now, I'm starting to feel better.  Of course, he is away for work.  Ah well, a girl has to welcome her man home I suppose.

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