I agree with a lot of the items except the burp clothes, my Mom just bought a pack of cloth diapers, they worked much better for me, the burp cloths they make were just too small..and def a monitor and myself, the best thing is the diaper genie I got. Granted the refills could get expensive at times but it kept the smell out of the house! And the swing, OMG, used it sooo much for Cadance, sometimes that is the only time I could get her to sleep LOL!