She's not a friend. I don't even know her, so I have no idea. Me and the other BMs are friends of the bride from college, but, we all live out of state from the bride and where the shower is supposed to be held, hence the dilemma.I've been asking her what she needs/wants help with for 8 weeks. I've gotten no response. It's very frustrating.
Ugh, that's tough. Are you all hostesses or is she the hostess? If it's just her, you can definitely tell her, but in the end it's her party. If it's all of you, you should all be in agreement, especially if you're all contributing financially. She sounds like a PITA. Sorry.