Thank you everyone who responded. I am already feeling better. I know we are lucky in so many ways, that MH is producing sperm and we do have a game plan. The initial shock was overwhelming. I think I will feel so much better once we get the genetic testing over with as well. We are going to do that ASAP and hope for summer 2013 for IVF #1.
Sorry I didn't quote, but to the poster who talked about IUI - apparently that wouldn't be an option for us because although MH is producing sperm, they are never leaving the testicles so they don't know how to move and would be unable to fertilize my egg. That's why we need the ICSI.
Thanks so much! Excited to get to know all the "faces" and stories over here. :)