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11-14-2012 at 2:44 PM
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Very Odd Pet Peeve - Random

So I was browsing the boards and noticed the Baby Names board. Curious I went in and looked at the posts.

For some reason, I find it absolutely annoying that people ask strangers for their opinion on baby names.

It obviously happens a lot...but I personally don't get it lol 

The only opinions that matter are my DH's and my families, even my close friends. But when it really came down to it, I'm not sure if I could use a name that a complete stranger came up with or said "that's an awesome name!" Or even worse: I'd be afraid that a lot of people wouldn't like the name I love and then I wouldn't use it!

I know, it's a complete random post, and I'm not sure how much of it is driven by hormones....but just thought I'd share and see if I was the only one or not! (I'm really bored at work lol)

11-14-2012 at 2:50 PM
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It is better for many people, because if you have your heart set on a name, then your mom or MIL doesn't like it, your feelings will be hurt.

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11-14-2012 at 2:51 PM
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my DH and i have been ttc for 3 years and it finally happened. We have had a name picked out for about 2 years now and ive shared it with friends and family. Now that were actually pregnant we've thought about other names but my sister wont stop bugging me about the first name becuase she loves it and her best friend hates it. Its really annoying because i feel its nobodys decision but me and my DH. And its a girls name.... we have no boy names yet. So im thinking im just gonna keep my mouth shut and choose whatever WE want. Nobody else. So i understand where your coming from.... just in a different situation.

 


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11-14-2012 at 2:59 PM
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mikaelaandmichael:

my DH and i have been ttc for 3 years and it finally happened. We have had a name picked out for about 2 years now and ive shared it with friends and family. Now that were actually pregnant we've thought about other names but my sister wont stop bugging me about the first name becuase she loves it and her best friend hates it. Its really annoying because i feel its nobodys decision but me and my DH. And its a girls name.... we have no boy names yet. So im thinking im just gonna keep my mouth shut and choose whatever WE want. Nobody else. So i understand where your coming from.... just in a different situation.

 

YES! it's only you and your DH's choice, so they can go fly a kite ;) 

Side note - Maybe you'll have a girl since you have it picked out already ;)

11-14-2012 at 3:16 PM
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singahappysong:
mikaelaandmichael:

my DH and i have been ttc for 3 years and it finally happened. We have had a name picked out for about 2 years now and ive shared it with friends and family. Now that were actually pregnant we've thought about other names but my sister wont stop bugging me about the first name becuase she loves it and her best friend hates it. Its really annoying because i feel its nobodys decision but me and my DH. And its a girls name.... we have no boy names yet. So im thinking im just gonna keep my mouth shut and choose whatever WE want. Nobody else. So i understand where your coming from.... just in a different situation.

 

YES! it's only you and your DH's choice, so they can go fly a kite ;) 

Side note - Maybe you'll have a girl since you have it picked out already ;)

 

My DH is deadset on a girl. We are sort of a different couple. I wanted a boy before i was pregnant. Now i say i dont care, just a healthy and happy baby. He still says NOPE a happy, healthy GIRL! 

And i really liked your comment. Made me laugh. Next time my sister and her friend bother me about the names i gonna say "Go fly a kite". Shes even trying to decided how i should announce it to everyone. UGH this is my pregnancy....you already had your 3!!


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11-14-2012 at 3:21 PM
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I go on that board a lot and it's actually my way of getting opinions on certain names and meanings/popularity/spellings that I wouldn't otherwise know BECAUSE we aren't telling family and friends the name we choose until the baby is born.  We want it to be a surprise and aren't so into calling the baby by it's name until he/she is born.  So really strangers on that board are the only ones I can kinda get ideas from for names if we are undecided. :)

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11-14-2012 at 3:22 PM
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I get what you're saying, and if you don't like the idea of it, of course you don't have to post there. If you have a name picked out that you absolutely love and won't change your mind, there's really no reason for it.

But - if you're considering several names, or have some potentials but haven't fallen in love with one yet, it's a good place to screen for bad nicknames you might not have thought of, or associations (for example, apparently in one of the FN + MN combos I love, both names are from Twilight. That might not stop me from using it, but I had no idea, and I'm glad I know now), or to see how the name will be received by a larger audience than just you, DH, and maybe a few friends and family members. Because the kid will have to live with it forever; it will be part of people's first impressions, potential bosses will see it on resumes, etc. For me, it's nice to get a sampling of how the general public will react to the name (or at least the limited sampling that's available on that board).

I've also just always loved names, so for me, it's fun to see what other people are considering. 

ETA: That first sentence might sound a little snotty - I didn't mean it that way at all!

11-14-2012 at 3:31 PM
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mimi4347:

I get what you're saying, and if you don't like the idea of it, of course you don't have to post there. If you have a name picked out that you absolutely love and won't change your mind, there's really no reason for it.

But - if you're considering several names, or have some potentials but haven't fallen in love with one yet, it's a good place to screen for bad nicknames you might not have thought of, or associations (for example, apparently in one of the FN + MN combos I love, both names are from Twilight. That might not stop me from using it, but I had no idea, and I'm glad I know now), or to see how the name will be received by a larger audience than just you, DH, and maybe a few friends and family members. Because the kid will have to live with it forever; it will be part of people's first impressions, potential bosses will see it on resumes, etc. For me, it's nice to get a sampling of how the general public will react to the name (or at least the limited sampling that's available on that board).

I've also just always loved names, so for me, it's fun to see what other people are considering. 

ETA: That first sentence might sound a little snotty - I didn't mean it that way at all!

I've never posted, just browsed (but your comment didn't sound snotty).

That does make sense though. My DH and I have each had a name picked out since we were in high school. One of those "That's a gorgeous name!" moments. lol So I don't "need" that board or the purposes of it until we have a second girl or second boy (we have one picked out for each). lol Our families are very in your face too and nosey, so they'll definitely be giving us plenty of ideas if we need them!

Also - I'm glad you dodged that bullet, of naming your kids after twilight people ;) Someone I  knew once named their cat Bella or something right when the first movie came out....she was teased for ever and she never even heard of twilight!!!

11-14-2012 at 9:53 PM
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I totally agree! Although I found it useful to get baby name ideas from all the messages lol

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11-14-2012 at 10:11 PM
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I disagree.  It's always good to get objective opinions about names from people who will be completely honest (online strangers).  The people posting on that board are still making their own decisions about their child's name, but getting opinions to help in that decision making process.  There's nothing wrong with that.

 


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