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11-18-2012 at 9:08 AM
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Caliing out sick?

At what point do you call out sick from work?

I know people that call out all the time for anything becuase they are "sick". Yet other's have to be dying before they call out.

 

I only call out if I have a fever or vomitting/diarrhea issues.


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11-18-2012 at 9:11 AM
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savannah_girl:
I only call out if I have a fever or vomitting/diarrhea issues.
This.

I've actually gone to work with no voice because it's honestly easier to just go into work than it is to call out and have to email sub plans (I'm a teacher).



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11-18-2012 at 9:14 AM
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If it is me who is sick, it's got to be something that is going to keep me from my desk. If I don't feel too bad, I'll go in. I can always leave early if it gets worse.

However, if LO is REALLY sick, like the night we were in the ER with her for a temp of 103, I will call out the next day so that we don't have to wake her up and drag her out to wherever she is that week (she alternates between my grandmother and H's mom), so she can rest as much as possible. I've only had to do that twice, though.



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11-18-2012 at 9:15 AM
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The only time i have called out sick was when i had Mono and literally could not stand up. I think i was 21 at the time. I have been at work with fevers, vomiting, diarrhea, etc...

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11-18-2012 at 9:16 AM
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I always feel bad calling in sick so I'm in the boat where if it's contagious or I'm about to pass out, I don't go in. I think co-workers get more pissed if you come in hacking up a lung, spreading it than calling in.


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11-18-2012 at 9:18 AM
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jesnic89:
The only time i have called out sick was when i had Mono and literally could not stand up. I think i was 21 at the time. I have been at work with fevers, vomiting, diarrhea, etc...

I'm sure all your co-workers appreciate that.

 


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11-18-2012 at 9:19 AM
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I can't really call out sick from work ever with my job. There are no "sick days" - I am a college instructor so there isn't anyone who can fill in for me either. I've gone in with everything from migraines to shingles (cleared to be around students from multiple dr's and dept at school) and diarrhea.

If I feel really sick, I can always cut class short and go home if I don't have anymore that day. 


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11-18-2012 at 9:20 AM
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yeah, well, at my job there isn't really another option. so it has to happen unfortunately. If i could call in sick, i would.

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11-18-2012 at 9:23 AM
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jesnic89:
yeah, well, at my job there isn't really another option. so it has to happen unfortunately. If i could call in sick, i would.

What do you do?


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11-18-2012 at 9:23 AM
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KdgTeacher:

jesnic89:
The only time i have called out sick was when i had Mono and literally could not stand up. I think i was 21 at the time. I have been at work with fevers, vomiting, diarrhea, etc...

I'm sure all your co-workers appreciate that.

Im going with this. When somebody comes into the office obviously really sick I get pissed off because I don't want what you have, and then 3 people will have to call off because that one person came in sick. Oh, and its gross.

if you are sick, please call off.  



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11-18-2012 at 9:26 AM
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I don't usually call in sick unless I'm running a fever and feel like I'm dying ... or I've been in the E.R. the night before.  Or my kiddo has a fever and is really sick.  I work in a nursing home and while I don't do direct care, it's very frowned upon to come in sick because older people are so susceptible to getting sick.  Usually when I call in sick, it's because I've had to keep my kiddo home .... I feel guilty calling in sick, especially if I don't stay in bed all day ... lol.

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11-18-2012 at 9:27 AM
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It's rare that I do but if I am very ill-fever/vomiting/etc-I won't go in. I'm one of the co-workers people get mad at for coming in hacking sometimes-because my job is more stressful and it's more of a hassle to be gone then just suffer through it and go in.
 
11-18-2012 at 9:27 AM
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I work really hard not to get sick so I can use my sick days as mental health days.  Maybe a day of shopping, sleeping in, catching up on house stuff.  I figure, they are my sick days..I will use them how I please.

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If I know I am contagious or that I won't be able to focus, I don't go to work. A slight cold won't keep me home, but a sinus infection or strep will. I am a believer in keeping your germs to yourself. 

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11-18-2012 at 9:46 AM
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I work in a very small vet hospital, so I try to not call off unless I have vomitting/diarrhea/fever. 


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11-18-2012 at 10:08 AM
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I work in the office of an automotive store & recently had to call in for a week, I had a major chest infection, I was hacking up a lung & my boss didn't want me to give it to anyone else.

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11-18-2012 at 10:18 AM
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I have the option of working from home so I have a lot of flexibility when it comes to work
I don't think I have called in sick in over 7 years though. I must have a great immune system because I dont get sick often and when I do its normally just a slight cold.

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11-18-2012 at 10:19 AM
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If I have a cold I bring my laptop home and work from here. I only actually called off sick when I had the flu and couldn't even function.
11-18-2012 at 10:37 AM
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BethDerek:
I've actually gone to work with no voice because it's honestly easier to just go into work than it is to call out and have to email sub plans I'm a teacher.
This. And to make it worse, our principal informed us that there is a sub shortage in the system right now, so if we don't come in our kids will likely be split between other classrooms to be basically babysat all day. So as much as my coworkers don't want to catch the viral bronchitis I've had for four weeks, they'd prefer I come in than have their classrooms disrupted.

I did stay home the day after I sprained my ankle a couple months ago. I spent 3 hours that night writing detailed lesson plans for a sub. When I returned, I was told that the plans weren't even looked at. A string of different people had taken turns supervising my kids - the principal, the gifted math teacher, the librarian, etc. Not a whole lot was taught or learned that day.

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11-18-2012 at 10:42 AM
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KdgTeacher:

jesnic89:
The only time i have called out sick was when i had Mono and literally could not stand up. I think i was 21 at the time. I have been at work with fevers, vomiting, diarrhea, etc...

I'm sure all your co-workers appreciate that.

Im going with this. When somebody comes into the office obviously really sick I get pissed off because I don't want what you have, and then 3 people will have to call off because that one person came in sick. Oh, and its gross.

if you are sick, please call off.  

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11-18-2012 at 10:47 AM
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I have the luxury of working from home when I need to so when I'm sick but not sick enough to keep me from work (just out of courtesy to co-workers), I opt to work from home rather than use a sick day.  But I think during trying to conceive, I've been a little more considerate of my body and will convince myself to take a sick day and just rest rather than try to get in a full 8 or 9 hours of stressful work.  If not TTC, I push myself.


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11-18-2012 at 10:59 AM
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I have to be vomiting/high fever/ really bad body aches...basically I have to feel like I'm not even well enough to run to the store up the street
11-18-2012 at 11:07 AM
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KdgTeacher:

jesnic89:
The only time i have called out sick was when i had Mono and literally could not stand up. I think i was 21 at the time. I have been at work with fevers, vomiting, diarrhea, etc...

I'm sure all your co-workers appreciate that.

 

I've had to as well. When you have an unmovable deadline and are the only person that knows how to do the job, sometimes it has to happen. I usually go in, get done what absolutely has to be done, and call it a day. I have to do this less now that they have set me up where I can log into my computer from home and I can just e-mail things to a coworker to get them signed and notarized, but not everyone has that option.

I had a job where I was chastised by my coworkers for not coming in after I had spent the whole night in the ER and was released 3 hours after I needed to be to work (and it was an hour drive away). Since I was released, I was expected to come in anyway. And they make food products. Be afraid.

 



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11-18-2012 at 12:10 PM
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I've only called in sick 3 times in all my working life, first 2 times I was contagious with strep throat, and the 3rd time I had pneumonia. Each time I took 2 days off. I agree that its better to call in sick then go in and infect everyone else, but I work in a very small office where if somebody doesn't show up there is no one to cover and everyone else feels the heavier work load so I usually just go in. Although my coworkers will take a sick day if they get the sniffles and use infecting everyone as an excuse to not come in but a lot of days I'd rather have the extra help and take my chances on catching something.

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11-18-2012 at 12:44 PM
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Same as you....I have to be dying.  I only called out sick once last year due to throwing up all morning.  

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11-18-2012 at 1:03 PM
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I typically don't call in sick unless I think I'm contagious. Someone needs to be wheeling me in on a stretcher otherwise. I do agree with the ladies that say if you think you're contagious, stay home! It may make my day worse to not have as much help at work that day, but I will take that over you hacking your germs all over me and me hacking for a week because of it! 



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I am part time and I only get 2 call-off's a year. So usually I go to work unless I am dying. It sucks because I work in a hospital so people think I'm a jerk for going to work sick but I don't have any other option. I only work 5 days every two weeks so I just try to suck it up the best I can. 

 
11-18-2012 at 1:43 PM
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I only call in when I've been vomiting, which has only been a few times since I started working at age 16, OR if I feel contagious (which isn't often).  I hattttttttte missing work! 


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for legit callouts, I wouldn't unless I had nausea/vomiting, fever, or if I hadn't gotten a good night sleep the night before due to coughing/congestion, etc.

I am very much in the camp that if you have the sick time available, and need a mental health day (not sick though) then by all means use it.  As longs as it's not excessive, I see nothing wrong with that! 


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I rarely get sick - I ended up with pneumonia in April this year and was out for 5 days and it was horrible.  I'm an attorney and had to reset 2 trials and a hearing which ended up being pushed out to July/August - it sucked.  I only miss work if I'm downright dying or contagious, or if DD needs to go to the Dr - but she has been incredibly healthy.  

I hate it when people come into the office sick.  I've sent staff home before (heard me vomiting in the bathroom and was all like Hell No!). We give our staff generous PTO and i think it is crazy to come in and out the whole office at risk.  


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