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11-19-2012 at 8:48 AM
amoslove14
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In need of advice- not pg related

This is kind of weird but I'm in need of some advice...

I keep having dreams about one of my co-workers.  Sometimes inappropriate ones, sometimes not.   He's married and I'm married.  There is obviously chemistry between us but neither of us would ever take it there.  I feel guilty about these dreams.  Has anyone ever experienced this?  Should I feel guilty?


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11-19-2012 at 9:19 AM
PrimRoseMa...
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You are married, not dead. Its completely normal to have dreams, even some romantic/sexual feelings towards another human being that is not our spouse. I don't think you should feel guilty. The only time I would say that, yes, you should feel guilty is when you cross the line to emotional and/or cheating with another person outside your marriage. 

You are human.  


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11-19-2012 at 9:23 AM
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Thank you... What exactly is emotional cheating?  I've never heard that used before.  I obviously don't want to do that!

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11-19-2012 at 12:10 PM
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amoslove14:
Thank you... What exactly is emotional cheating?  I've never heard that used before.  I obviously don't want to do that!

If you start confiding in this co-worker rather than your husband, if you get emotional fulfillment from him more than your husband, if you look to him to fulfill emotional needs instead of your husband...stuff like that.


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11-19-2012 at 4:03 PM
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Dreams are completely harmless! I have been having crazy dreams lately that are sexual in nature. Sometimes it's with celebrities, and sometimes it with an ex.... It's natural!

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