We are going to TTC starting in December and I am already driving myself crazy with the "what if I can't have a child" For some reason I have always had that thought in the back of my mind.
I am 28 DH is 26. We dont smoke or drink and we have been eatign better and gettign abck in shape the last few months. We have lost weigh but are still both overweight.
Are there statistics on how common or uncommon infertility is? I think it is similar to how you feel in the two week wait...you just don't know. Maybe my crazy fears will be calmed when I start temping and charting so hopefully I can see that I do ovulate.
Just another crazy obsession from a women TTC.....
I can totally relate to this post. I'm normally a very calm and rational person. I don't worry about dying or getting cancer, because I realize that these things are mostly out of my control. I do however have this sick intense feeling that I will never be able to get pregnant. I think about it a lot and obsess over my chart - worrying that I didn't REALLY ovulate
.... maybe that's a sign that we just want it so badly? Or maybe this is the first thing in our lives that we haven't been able to control the outcome?
I don't have any advice.. just wanted to let you know you are not alone.
Good luck to you. xo