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11-19-2012 at 9:43 PM
Todd&Laura
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2nd Pregnancy Feels Surreal

I don't know if it is because I am so busy with my son this time, or what, but I find that even though I am almost 31 weeks pregnant, I don't even realize I'm pregnant. I mean, of course I know I am pregnant...it's kind of obvious LOL. But, my brain is not on it at all. It's to the point that people ask about it and I look down and am like, "Oh yeah..." This baby was completely planned and prepared for, so it's not like I'm in denial.

Any other STMs (or S+TMs) feel this way? I'm kind of sad that I'm feeling so out of it since this will be our last baby. I was hoping to savor everything about it since it is the last time, but I feel like the pregnancy is flying by and I'm not even really paying attention to it.


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11-19-2012 at 9:46 PM
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YES! i'm feeling the exact same way...i forget i'm pg sometimes until i get a kick in the vajay or have to pee NOW!

it was a much easier first part of the pg than it was with DS1 so it went pretty fast and easy...DS is 18 months so he's keeping me so busy.

we just painted the nursery so it's starting to get a little more real cause i'll decorate this week and get things organized.

but i totally feel ya! 

i'm totally not enjoying it the same way i was with DS1 either...i'm actually kind of looking forward to it being done...although i'm sad about that too cause we're done with 2 boys so.... 


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11-19-2012 at 9:57 PM
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Yes I can't believe how fast its been going and I don't think I sit back and enjoy it s much as I should!! And I have not even done anything for her room, still working on DS's big boy room!!

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11-20-2012 at 5:39 AM
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I told my OB the same thing. It was no big deal when I first felt baby #2, I struggle to take pictures of my bump every four weeks (let alone every week like with #1), and I'm so not in the mind set of having another baby. I also have a toddler who keeps me crazy busy and we moved into a HUGE house when I was 3 mos pregnant, so house work/repairs/etc are really keeping my mind off this baby. I'd imagine that each pregnancy goes by faster and with less amusement, as you have more and more going on to distract you.

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11-20-2012 at 6:03 AM
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Yes, I feel the same way.  This is my third and most likely last pregnancy.  It is going incredibly fast.  I am trying to cherish all the little things that I enjoy about being pregnant but at the same time I am starting to feel miserable (back ache, hip ache, tired) and I feel like I keep snapping at my 2 year old :-(

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11-20-2012 at 7:48 AM
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mom2b22013:
Yes I can't believe how fast its been going and I don't think I sit back and enjoy it s much as I should!! And I have not even done anything for her room, still working on DS's big boy room!!

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11-20-2012 at 7:48 AM
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mom2b22013:
Yes I can't believe how fast its been going and I don't think I sit back and enjoy it s much as I should!! And I have not even done anything for her room, still working on DS's big boy room!!

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11-20-2012 at 7:48 AM
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mom2b22013:
Yes I can't believe how fast its been going and I don't think I sit back and enjoy it s much as I should!! And I have not even done anything for her room, still working on DS's big boy room!!

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11-20-2012 at 7:50 AM
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mom2b22013:
Yes I can't believe how fast its been going and I don't think I sit back and enjoy it s much as I should!! And I have not even done anything for her room, still working on DS's big boy room!!

 Sorry- my compute is acting all crazy. I met to say this exactly! 


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11-20-2012 at 8:08 AM
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I'm feeling similarly.  I just feel like this pregnancy has passed SO quickly that it's surreal that there will be an actual baby here soon.  When I start thinking about how many weeks are left (and how many have already passed) it just blows my mind.  I'm not quite ready for baby to get here yet!  I mean, I'm very anxious to meet her and get snuggles and such, but the reality of two kids... it's just coming up so fast!

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11-20-2012 at 8:52 AM
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Yes it feels a lot more surreal than with number 1.  I feel like it should be the opposite because we know what to expect it should be less surreal, but it is much much more surreal for me.  I was so ready to meet my baby with my first, and had a horrible pregnancy.  I just wanted this thing done. 

With this one, I am so not ready for a newborn because now I know how hard it was.  I can't wrap my head around the fact that I only have 7 weeks left, and if I have the baby early like DS that's only 4 weeks- ah.  It will be nice to get my body back, but then I have to go through 6 weeks of bleeding and I had an awful time with breastfeeding, so really I don't get my body back until I wean or breastfeeding magically becomes easy for me which it never did with DS. 

Add in sleep deprivation with going back to work, and I'm quit content to be pregnant and in denial about how soon the baby will be here- ahhh again.  

 

 
11-20-2012 at 9:02 AM
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I definitely felt that way while pregnant with DS, but this time it's fast forward x100. I feel like weeks just keep flying by, and I can't do anything to slow it down. I'm finally moving a little slower which is switching on the pregnancy light bulb, but other than that I don't think it'll hit me until LO is born. It totally makes me feel sad, especially because I feel like I blinked and DD is 3 and DS is 2... time is just moving too fast all together. The hardest thing having a newborn last time was how old it made DD feel Crying

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11-20-2012 at 9:22 AM
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I know how you feel.  I felt that way with our 2nd- the time flew by and I didn't get to enjoy it as much- meaning there was less time sitting around the couch and just feeling the baby, etc.  I think another reason was our 1st was 8 months old when I got pregnant (yes it was planned) and started walking at 10 months old so I was running around and chasing a baby!  This time around I have more time to enjoy it and the "older kids" (they are now 2 & 3) are much more aware of what's going on and always want to feel the baby.  We're thinking this is our last too so its very bittersweet- I'm not ready for it to end but at the same time we're all just excited to meet the new little one!
 
11-20-2012 at 1:06 PM
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Yep- I feel this way, too.  I keep having to remind myself that I have another baby coming in 7-ish weeks!  I'm getting bigger and slowing down a bit physically, so even though I KNOW I'm pregnant, I still don't focus on it near as much as I did the first time around!  I'm busy with DD and getting the house ready for the holidays.  This baby was a big surprise, but of course we are excited.  I think DH has only felt the baby kick a couple of times because I always forget to tell him to feel when it's kicking!

 

 

 
11-20-2012 at 1:16 PM
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Yes!  I feel like this pregnancy has flown by so quickly, I can't believe I'm only about a month away!

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