I went out one night with DH and BFF (who used to be our housemate) to this bar with a speakeasy theme. I got this mocktail that was lime and ginger and it HIT THE SPOT.
Try a mocktail, it might work for you. juices and sparkling mineral water in some combo make the best mocktails in my opinion (I'm a bartender) but everone is different and some people just like colas or juices in some combo.
Also, try a punch. Gingerale, pineapple juice and lime sherbet is my favorite.
If I put Apollinaris sparkling mineral water with O.J. and a twist of lime it almost tastes like a screwdriver.
Also, there is a brand of cola called Dry Soda and the juniper flavor helped curb my craving for gin when I had it.
Dry Soda is awesome for liquor carvings, gingerale is good for beer cravings and wine...well, there is nothing quite like it so I guess that's why I miss it so much.
GL