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11-20-2012 at 12:25 PM
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My little man could have been here...

So last night the fiancé and I decided to have sex for the first time in a couple weeks. (I've been iffy about it since I've been dilating) right after I got cramps galore that lasted throughout the night. They were not painful just terribly uncomfortable. I didn't know if those were contractions or not because when I think contractions I think of all hell breaking,loose. 

Had my 38 weeks appt this morning (which my doctor thought there was no way in hell is make it to) and I'm dilated 5cm now and she said there's a LOt of stretching room. She told me if I would have went to the hospital last night they would have kept me and induced me.

So now she told me the next "contraction" I get to hurry my butt up and get to the hospital and to not follow the 5-1-1 rule because of how dilated I am! She's very worried once the constant contractions hit that I might not make it to the hospital!

I'm so anxious now it's unreal.

Luckily I'm still not scared of going through labor and being induced. I hope it stays that way! 


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11-20-2012 at 12:54 PM
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Are you high risk? Why would they induce you this early?
 
11-20-2012 at 1:17 PM
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bandwife:
Are you high risk? Why would they induce you this early?

 

she never said anything bout being high risk. He's already measuring two weeks ahead and pushing 9 lbs she thinks and because of how dilated I am. It's obviously up to me but she thinks its safer. 


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11-20-2012 at 1:21 PM
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ambuhsmilesx32:

bandwife:
Are you high risk? Why would they induce you this early?

 

she never said anything bout being high risk. He's already measuring two weeks ahead and pushing 9 lbs she thinks and because of how dilated I am. It's obviously up to me but she thinks its safer. 

Weight calculations can be extremely off.  My son was supposed to be a larger baby and he was 7 lbs 13 oz.  I would definitely be cautious about not waiting too long to go in, but I wouldn't be getting induced (personally) unless I was way past my due date and there were concerns about baby's health.


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11-20-2012 at 1:30 PM
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Guessing your fetus' weight is a crapshoot. Your OB is trying to make it easier on herself, you have no reason to induce.


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11-20-2012 at 1:39 PM
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Well I hope you do make it to the hospital! Or you might end up on the news! =)

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11-20-2012 at 1:44 PM
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I'm sure you'll be fine.

You're doc is just getting you all worked up.  Weights can be VERY off.


 
11-20-2012 at 1:54 PM
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I too was 5cm at my 38w apt with Ds. My OB pushed me to go to the hospital so they could break my bag and get labor started. I declined and Ds stayed put until 39w1d. He was supposed to be this huge baby but weighed in at 7lbs5oz! I wanted a med free delivery with little interventions, so that's why I declined. Plus, I wouldn't want pitocin anywhere near me if I could avoid it!! 

Give your body and baby time. You will go into labor when your baby is ready. And since you have a good head start, hopefully your labor will go quickly. I went to the hospital at the first sign of labor (a trickle feeling after I sneezed, no contractions I could feel) and was only there for 4 hrs before Ds made his deput! GL mama 


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11-20-2012 at 2:52 PM
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If you are that dilated why would you need to be induced? I would look into being induced, the pros and cons, before being induced.

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11-20-2012 at 6:10 PM
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Well, hopefully you could avoid being induced.  I had to be with my 1st b/c my water broke (and they wouldn't let me go past 24 hrs after that).  It was no fun.

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11-20-2012 at 7:38 PM
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I'm really not worried if its less comfortable or not. Whatever is best for my child works for me. 

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11-21-2012 at 12:25 PM
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*Lurking* 

I'm shocked at how many Drs. keep on pushing for induction due to guesses that the baby will be big. My Dr. never suggested this during both of my pregnancies. A 9 lb. baby does not always equal a difficult delivery. I'm especially shocked since I have heard so many stories of these predictions being not accurate. 

It is of course up to you, but don't let your Dr. think you HAVE to do an induction due to their GUESSES that the baby will be large. And keep in mind that Drs. don't only suggest inductions when they are best for the baby. They also suggest them when they are best for their schedule. And so many seem to hand out induction orders like candy. There are a lot of Drs. that are nonchalant about inductions. And they should not be. 

I have had two vaginal deliveries and both babies were over 9 pounds. I'm so glad my Drs never even mentioned it being a problem and I avoided added unneeded stress. My DD was 9 lb. 2 oz. and her delivery was EASY. (Labor was another story..) 

My first delivery was after my body went into labor on its own and my water broke naturally. Then I had to be induced with my DD because she was late. BIG difference between the two labors. 

I would recommend researching inductions. I have heard of some very positive induction experiences, but inductions do have increased risks including increased chance of c-section and increase risk of fetal distress. Again, inductions can work perfectly smoothly and are of course definitely needed at times, but I would never do it it without hesitation and extra questions for my Dr.  When my Dr. offered for me to be induced earlier when she was just a day or two late, I quickly declined (it was not necessary at all at that point. He was just offering) I wanted to wait and see if my DD would come on her own. Unfortunately she didn't and I had to be induced. I believe that if I had taken his earlier offer I would of probably had ended up with a c-section because my body was far from ready at that point. 




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