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11-20-2012 at 1:17 PM
JGior1031
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WTF is happening to this wolrd? (Disturbing article & video)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2234775/Florida-teen-14-charged-degree-murder-strangles-newborn-baby-hides-body-shoe-box-dumps-laundry.html

 Has anyone seen this article?

WTF is happeneing in this world?!?! I have never been so disturbed by an article, and then I watched the video at the bottom of the teen and I wanted to get sick! The teen is so calm and very mater-of-fact which is so sick and scary!




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11-20-2012 at 1:19 PM
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Thanks, I'm going to go vomit now.

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11-20-2012 at 1:22 PM
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I wonder why people feel the need to post this stuff. I'd rather not read it.

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11-20-2012 at 1:23 PM
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I guess I will continue my incoherent desk crying.




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11-20-2012 at 1:24 PM
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Disgusting. That just pisses me off to no end. How the hell did her parents not know she was pregnant!? And how did they not think to check on her or say something if she were hiding in the bathroom long enough to deliver and murder a baby?
11-20-2012 at 1:32 PM
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JuneBug86:
I wonder why people feel the need to post this stuff. I'd rather not read it.

This, seriously. 



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11-20-2012 at 1:35 PM
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The girl in the video does not disgust me. Infact I really feel so sorry for her and horrified by the parents. The fact that she felt she could not tell them what she was going through and that this was her only option. There are also so many important factors that were not addressed in the video... like who the boy/man involved is. Or her access to options or education or ability to terminate the pregnancy before she reached term.

I mean this girl took a pair of scissors to her own genitals. Went through childbirth at 14 alone in a bathroom. I think this situation is a product of the world we live in today..

I disagree that she was tried as an adult.

11-20-2012 at 1:39 PM
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AliciaS1411:
Disgusting. That just pisses me off to no end. How the hell did her parents not know she was pregnant!? And how did they not think to check on her or say something if she were hiding in the bathroom long enough to deliver and murder a baby?

Not that difficult to hide a pregnancy, especially if you carry in a discrete way. Kids do it all the time. I could have "hid" in my bathroom for days because of the layout of the house.

 Why are you trying to blame this on them instead of leaving the blame on the person responsible for what happened?

 

Call me desensitized or whatever, but this isn't new, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and sadly will likely not be the last.

 



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11-20-2012 at 1:43 PM
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pantherRN:

JuneBug86:
I wonder why people feel the need to post this stuff. I'd rather not read it.

This, seriously. 

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11-20-2012 at 1:50 PM
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AliciaS1411:
Disgusting. That just pisses me off to no end. How the hell did her parents not know she was pregnant!? And how did they not think to check on her or say something if she were hiding in the bathroom long enough to deliver and murder a baby?

Not that difficult to hide a pregnancy, especially if you carry in a discrete way. Kids do it all the time. I could have "hid" in my bathroom for days because of the layout of the house.

 Why are you trying to blame this on them instead of leaving the blame on the person responsible for what happened?

 

Call me desensitized or whatever, but this isn't new, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and sadly will likely not be the last.

 

oops definitely did not mean to come across as I was claiming the parents. I definitely feel like she is 100% to blame and I think its right that she be tried as an adult. She made an adult decision to have sex, and adult decision not to tell anyone, and a very adult decision not to look into options and instead murder her child. It just amazes me that she was able to hide it from her family. 

11-20-2012 at 1:57 PM
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GhostMonkey:

AliciaS1411:
Disgusting. That just pisses me off to no end. How the hell did her parents not know she was pregnant!? And how did they not think to check on her or say something if she were hiding in the bathroom long enough to deliver and murder a baby?

Not that difficult to hide a pregnancy, especially if you carry in a discrete way. Kids do it all the time. I could have "hid" in my bathroom for days because of the layout of the house.

 Why are you trying to blame this on them instead of leaving the blame on the person responsible for what happened?

 

Call me desensitized or whatever, but this isn't new, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and sadly will likely not be the last.

 

You are absolutely right this is not something new.  I think the video of the teen was what made this difficult for me.  She seemed to show no remorse and just explained her actions like she was talking about making breakfast.  This was the first time I had ever seen a video like this with an article.




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11-20-2012 at 1:59 PM
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pantherRN:

JuneBug86:
I wonder why people feel the need to post this stuff. I'd rather not read it.

This, seriously. 

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Then dont read it.  I purposely put "(Disturbing article and video)" in the title.  No one forced you to read it or click the link.




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11-20-2012 at 1:59 PM
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thekikimonster:
I guess I will continue my incoherent desk crying.

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11-20-2012 at 2:06 PM
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JGior1031:
GhostMonkey:

AliciaS1411:
Disgusting. That just pisses me off to no end. How the hell did her parents not know she was pregnant!? And how did they not think to check on her or say something if she were hiding in the bathroom long enough to deliver and murder a baby?

Not that difficult to hide a pregnancy, especially if you carry in a discrete way. Kids do it all the time. I could have "hid" in my bathroom for days because of the layout of the house.

 Why are you trying to blame this on them instead of leaving the blame on the person responsible for what happened?

 

Call me desensitized or whatever, but this isn't new, it's not the first time something like this has happened, and sadly will likely not be the last.

 

You are absolutely right this is not something new.  I think the video of the teen was what made this difficult for me.  She seemed to show no remorse and just explained her actions like she was talking about making breakfast.  This was the first time I had ever seen a video like this with an article.

People in their 30s may remember something like this happening with a girl from U of Delaware in the mid/late 90s. I remember my health teacher (also the school psychologist) telling us that the girl had to be in so much denial through out the entire process.IE She must have been saying to herself "I'm not really having sex. I'm not really pregnant."


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11-20-2012 at 2:07 PM
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I had seen this a couple of weeks ago. It made my soul cry. 

That being said, I think this girl must be seriously mentally ill - I just can't bring myself to think that a sane person would do such a thing. 



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11-20-2012 at 2:23 PM
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JGior1031:
MrsSmith414:
pantherRN:

JuneBug86:
I wonder why people feel the need to post this stuff. I'd rather not read it.

This, seriously. 

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Then dont read it.  I purposely put "(Disturbing article and video)" in the title.  No one forced you to read it or click the link.

I read the title of the post & the link (it says what it's about) and decided I really did not want to go there today. I think it was very clear, JGior, & I appreciate those red flags so I can avoid ruining my day ;)

11-20-2012 at 2:27 PM
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coraggiosa:

I had seen this a couple of weeks ago. It made my soul cry. 

That being said, I think this girl must be seriously mentally ill - I just can't bring myself to think that a sane person would do such a thing. 

This. Or became such from going through this experience alone, in fear ect.

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