It's going to be hard to hide it at Thanksgiving because I'm a wine girl and I've always got a glass of wine in my hand at the holidays around my family so I know they will think something is up but I'm going to try to play it off LOL. I feel ok telling people before the 12 week mark because I haven't had a loss before and I guess the way I see it is if I were to have a loss my family would still end up finding out because of how upset I would be, I'm not good at hiding my emotions LOL.
i felt the same way... I knew I would go to the ppl I told if I had a loss....
suggestion for wine... Bring a bottle of grape juice, hide it somewhere in the BR, put a little bit of red wine in ur glass, go the aNr, dump it, and pour the grape juice in the glass. Works wonders :-)