Yeah my mom likes to say stuff to me all the time, but it's generally not about how I look, just how I'm feeling. For example:
"You're out of breath because you're out of shape." Nevermind my heart was getting used to pumping 50% more blood and all my organs were shifting against my lungs.
"The baby wouldn't kick you in the ribs if you didn't slouch" So every woman who gets kicked in the ribs has lousy posture?
"So you're basically eating nothing but junk?" as I sat down ONCE to eat three pretzel bites with cheese.
"I NEVER had that problem" in response to everything I say. Apparently I never kicked her hard, she never had problems sleeping, she never had back pain, never got out of breath, never got tired from her VERY demanding job that involved heavy lifting, never had BH or RLP, and I'm basically a big fat pu$$y for being bothered by these things.
It drives me nuts. At first the talk about symptoms seemed like a good bonding experience, but I quickly got over that once the high and mighty came out.
Oh, and a woman I work with told me I need to stop trying to gain weight because she only gained 20 lbs with both her kids. I've gained 26. STFU.