I cannot believe how many people give the excuse..."I wasn't planning to have ANY more children...but guess what?...I'm pg again 5, 7, 12 years later!"
This cracks me up..... really? An excuse? This seriously just cracks me up....... What are they giving an excuse for? Those crafty moms with older children always around the system.
I think that honestly it is a personal choice that you have with your SO, your circle of friends, and family. There are many years between my DD and my LO. There are already showers that have been offered up for nothing else other than to celebrate this new little life. I would be appauld at anyone who has a shower or expects a shower for "things," rather than just because it is your 1st, 2nd, or 15th.