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11-26-2012 at 8:53 AM
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A Very Special V-Day Story and Follow Up to My Fall

So today I hit the "special" 24 week mark, AKA viability day. A small part of me is breathing a sigh of relief, a small part of me is suddenly scared as I think "Oh my gosh, I'm going to have a BABY!", but mostly, I feel very appreciative for the gift of life.

My boyfriend, love of my life (at least my pregnancy hormones let me call him that today), is 30 years old. And it was at 24 weeks pregnant that his mother gave birth. He was given less than a 5% chance to survive and here we are - having our first baby. The only reminders of his harrowing birth are the scars from all the life saving tubing and monitors attached to his tiny one pound body when born.

Hitting 24 weeks just opens my eyes to how miraculous life is, and how lucky I am to live in an age where a 24 week old baby has a chance at survival.

Over the weekend I tripped and fell. Ended up calling my OBs office just to touch base with them over the incident. Doctor told me to go to L&D for a non stress test and ultrasound just to ensure there was no placental or bag tears. It actually turned out to be a very good and therapeutic experience. My BF had sports conversations with our daughter. The more he talked to her, the more she'd flip around (which we could hear on the monitor). And he actually felt her kick.  

God bless everyone, their families, and H&H 9 months (or remaining of them)!  


 
11-26-2012 at 9:01 AM
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Happy to hear everything is ok and that you are having a "good" hormone day Wink

 
11-26-2012 at 9:53 AM
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All good news!

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11-26-2012 at 9:58 AM
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It's a great V-day story. Thanks for sharing it!

But, how's your foot?


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11-26-2012 at 10:02 AM
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Foot still hurts. I decided to stay home from work and elevate it. BUT it is better - so I don't think I broke or fractured it. Probably sprained it or bruised it somehow. 

 
11-26-2012 at 11:08 AM
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What a great story about your BF.  Whenever I hear the survival odds of V-Day births it seems so hopeless and yet, there are so many great stories out there that don't always get shared.  Glad to hear everything is okay with your LO after your fall, hope your foot feels better soon!

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11-26-2012 at 11:44 AM
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What a great touching story :) Congrats on reaching V-Day!

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11-26-2012 at 12:05 PM
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Very happy to hear all is well. Happy birthday to your SO!

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11-26-2012 at 2:11 PM
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Happy V-Day!

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11-26-2012 at 2:23 PM
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Wow, how incredible of him to beat the odds back then!  These days it's about 50/50 but still effing scary.  

I'm glad everything is going well! 


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