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11-26-2012 at 9:38 PM
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Double standard

I'm a regular poster here and I also chose to create an AE to ask a controversial question. What's with the "you're a NEWBIE" remark? Are we in high school again? Seriously.

Who the fluck cares how many post you have? Does that make you all knowing?

I fail to understand why people who sit on here for hours responding to up their post counts are any more "knowledgable" than anyone else. Doesn't make sense and it's very immature.

Can anyone enlighten me?
 
11-26-2012 at 9:40 PM
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11-26-2012 at 9:40 PM
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11-26-2012 at 9:42 PM
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If you are a regular poster, say what the hell you want to say under your real name and stop being such a pussay about it. Geez...talk about being in high school. 

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11-26-2012 at 9:46 PM
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I could give a fluck about post count. There are plenty of intelligent newbs here and plenty of twaty regular posters. I do not discriminate with my distaste for others.

Equal opportunity here, people!!

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11-26-2012 at 9:48 PM
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If you thought your question was too controversial that you had to post on an AE, then why did you expect to get happy and polite answers?!?!

If you aren't open to honest conversation, then ask Dr. google.  

11-26-2012 at 9:52 PM
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11-26-2012 at 9:58 PM
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I have only been here about a month and half.  I was under the impression that Tuesdays are the crazy days.  Did Tuesday start early?

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11-26-2012 at 9:59 PM
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11-26-2012 at 10:02 PM
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AETBJOKE:
I'm a regular poster here and I also chose to create an AE to ask a controversial question. What's with the "you're a NEWBIE" remark? Are we in high school again? Seriously. Who the fluck cares how many post you have? Does that make you all knowing? I fail to understand why people who sit on here for hours responding to up their post counts are any more "knowledgable" than anyone else. Doesn't make sense and it's very immature. Can anyone enlighten me?

 

If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. :-)  

11-26-2012 at 10:03 PM
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Who posted 'you're a newbie'

???

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11-26-2012 at 10:08 PM
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burmann:
I have only been here about a month and half.  I was under the impression that Tuesdays are the crazy days.  Did Tuesday start early?

I like Tuesdays starting early; that way I can get to Friday quicker.

OP STU. Everyone knows newbs who post BFPs don't get sugar and rainbows; because, they haven't supported others and no one knows them. 


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11-26-2012 at 10:09 PM
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I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.


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11-26-2012 at 10:09 PM
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WTH is going on???
11-26-2012 at 10:22 PM
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domsgirl1:
WTH is going on???

 

Agree! Why is everyone so f**king butthurt tonight?! Is it because of the full moon? 


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11-27-2012 at 12:10 AM
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ChancieMark:
I could give a fluck about post count. There are plenty of intelligent newbs here and plenty of twaty regular posters. I do not discriminate with my distaste for others.

Equal opportunity here, people!!


Agreed.


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11-27-2012 at 5:33 AM
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Meh.  Put a bunch of women together and craziness is bound to happen.  Take it or leave it.  It's just the way of the board. 


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11-27-2012 at 6:16 AM
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DachshundLove:

I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

:::pats dachshunds head::::

you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.



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11-27-2012 at 6:23 AM
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darrahmccall:
nbsp;If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. : nbsp;


Does it take too long to type you?


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11-27-2012 at 7:01 AM
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lobosabby:
DachshundLove:

I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

:::pats dachshunds head::::

you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.

I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.


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Me: 29, had two blocked tubes - left was cleared during lap&dye, right was unable to be cleared. PCOS & Stage 2 Endo. DH: 31, SA = perfect.
CLOMID: 4 rounds, 50mg + TI = BFN's.
FEMARA: 1 round = no response.
12-24-2012 : Laparoscopy, Softball sized cyst/endo/scar tissue removed.
Cycle #14 - Feb 2013 : 50mg clomid. Ovidrel Trigger. IUI on 2/14/13 = thin lining, multiple cysts.
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Forced break. Continuous BCP for 6 weeks to give my jacked up ovaries a break.
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11-27-2012 at 7:08 AM
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MrsM507:
I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.

I miss you too!!! I think of you often - I'm always a page away!

I LOVE THAT ONSIE! You MUST send me the link (if you can find it!!!) I also really missed my lush days over Thanksgiving. Everyone was drinking - I would've been plowed with the rest of em!



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BFP #1 07/27/12 - EDD 04/07/13; C/P on 07/31/12
BFP #2 10/11/12 - EDD 06/24/13; Blighted Ovum; D&C 11/30/12
BFP #3 03/10/13 - EDD 11/21/13 - PLEASE BE OUR TAKE HOME BABY!
Beta #1 - 95.8 (12DPO); Beta #2 - 502 (15DPO); Beta #3 - 2003 (18DPO)
First U/S showed one beautiful baby measuring 7w1d with a HR of 148!!! Second U/S showed baby measuring 9w0d with a HR of 173!!!
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11-27-2012 at 7:14 AM
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Come on OP post under your real name this is stupid.

11-27-2012 at 7:17 AM
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ChuggingWater:
darrahmccall:
nbsp;If u can't handle it, I say then don't come here. People u don't know shouldn't be able to make u that upset or whatever. Lol. : nbsp;
Does it take too long to type you?
 

Yup. Not 4 u tho. Lol 

11-27-2012 at 7:17 AM
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I think judging someone on their post count is stupid, but I also think that creating an AE to ask a question is lame.  Man up and use your real screen name.
11-27-2012 at 7:17 AM
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lobosabby:
DachshundLove:

I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

:::pats dachshunds head::::

you're cute. and not long for this board with this kind of post.

Yes And OP... if you are only here for support, help, and all that jazz many people here are helpful. But this is NOT a support group. Get counseling if you really need that help-- especially if an internet board upsets you.


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11-27-2012 at 7:24 AM
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DachshundLove:

I'm new here, I kind of understand where these AE posts are coming from.

I understand that you should read the newbie link first, many times so you don't miss something and ask a question that's been asked 1 million + times. I would find that irritating too if I'd been using the site for a long time.

What I don't understand is the unnecessary harshness used in several of the replies I read day in and day out. If you think the posters question is dumb, there is no need to be mean about it. I'm not saying baby people, but have a heart. If you don't like what they posted, why bother replying, unless of course if was offensive.

What if that person is having a really bad day and they missed something in the newbie link. What if they don't think the question is dumb. What if they are just really new to this site/ charting / TTC and don't really get it.

People view things differently and thats ok, I just really disagree with the way some people act on these boards.

That said, I haven't really had a bad experience yet, I've just read a lot of other peoples. Try not to take anything to heart on here.

 

I get where this is coming from. If newer people lurked more, which if this is their first message board they may no realize that lurking is the best thing before posting, they'd catch the vibe of the board faster. 


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11-27-2012 at 7:35 AM
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lobosabby:

MrsM507:
I miss you, Lobos! I saw the cutest onesie the other day, it had a baby bottle on it and said, "I'll take a bottle of your finest white" haha perfection? I think so.

I miss you too!!! I think of you often - I'm always a page away!

I LOVE THAT ONSIE! You MUST send me the link (if you can find it!!!) I also really missed my lush days over Thanksgiving. Everyone was drinking - I would've been plowed with the rest of em!

YGPM with the link :)


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Me: 29, had two blocked tubes - left was cleared during lap&dye, right was unable to be cleared. PCOS & Stage 2 Endo. DH: 31, SA = perfect.
CLOMID: 4 rounds, 50mg + TI = BFN's.
FEMARA: 1 round = no response.
12-24-2012 : Laparoscopy, Softball sized cyst/endo/scar tissue removed.
Cycle #14 - Feb 2013 : 50mg clomid. Ovidrel Trigger. IUI on 2/14/13 = thin lining, multiple cysts.
Cycle #15 - no meds, still have cysts, no follicles. Boo!
Forced break. Continuous BCP for 6 weeks to give my jacked up ovaries a break.
Cycle #16 actively trying: May/June plan: Femara, Ovidrel Trigger, IUI! Bring iiiiit!

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11-27-2012 at 7:42 AM
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I love when posts like this come out and newbs think it's okay to b!tch away on the thread. lol, like it's safe or something...

 

 

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11-27-2012 at 8:03 AM
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I can't believe posts like this still happen.  Really OP and others who think people are too harsh, if you don't like the comments and replies you get, maybe this isn't the place for you.  There are tons of other sites that spew the love...try babygaga.  

I have learned a great deal from this site, because you get told the truth here.  Not some sugar coated answer you are hoping for.  

 


 
11-27-2012 at 9:29 AM
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The whole newbie this is Bullspit!!! I am not 19 I have had a kid before I know the difference between a Vagina and a pocket rocket...this webpage was never created to be a source of hatred. I could care less what people call me.....And yes I have also created an AE so STFU to all you who say post under your real name...Its not going to happen because of Biztches like you!!!

TTGP is for those that are trying to get pregnant...some try for years some try for only a few weeks does that mean that the ones that have it happen sooner deserve hated for being happy? Who cares if they post it here of 1st Tri or on the Dad's board??? I am sorry some of you get so upset when you see that others are getting what you want...but I would like to think that your hostility might be one of the things holding you back!

If I walked up to a crowd of strangers and said hey guess what I found out I am pregnant today I am pretty Fluckin sure they wouldn't bash and harass me for being happy about it...Even if they have been trying for a baby for 2+ years that is just classless...... You all look for reasons to get your feathers ruffled and it is funny to watch and read about. If there is one person not kissing someone else A$$ on this board then it is like the hounds have been released!

You all comment about it not being the place for rainbows and glitterfarts and whatever else so buck up right?.....Then why is it when a Newb gets on here and only has 50 posts and says Yeah BFP all you wenches get your feelings hurt and tell her to go away? Pretty Hypocritical of you! You all get your Shiz in a bunch no matter what is said and or who says it!

Congrats to those of you who will come up with something smart to say or post a sarcastic Gif or call me a twatwaffle or a Ho3 or whatever...go ahead I promise I am not going to sit behind me computer and cry about it! I think that there isnt one of you who would stand up to a pregnant woman face to face and rip her to shreds in a room full of people! (Holds up  Middle finger) 


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