((hugs)) and the infamous "all you need is 1" which totally doesn't help at all when faced with such unknowns :-(
I'm not a religious person, but I am beginning to believe the statement that we are only given how much we can handle. So you, me, and the rest of the ladies here are STRONGASSEDBITCHES! I know how much the waiting and numbers game sucks. Try to find things to distract yourself (we've watched sooooo much TV it's mind-numbing).
FX for growing embies and a smooth transfer.