first, congrats on baby! :)
second, I am appalled at all the rude remarks, it seams that on this site these women just care to tear other mothers apart while talking about manners, ettiquette and whatever else while they personally lack these qualities otherwise they wouldn't speak and treat others this way.
I say if this works for you and your friends it sounds nice so enjoy and have fun! There is never just one right way of doing things and people that say that are ignorant and close minded.