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11-29-2012 at 2:03 PM
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Baby's Speech

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I'm kind of starting to worry a little bit.  My son is 11 months old now, and he doesn't say anything more than "Ah".   All of the babies here around his age are already saying mamama and dadada.  I'd feel better about it if I even got a "Bah" but I don't.  I looked in my baby book, and by 9-10 months I had quite an extensive vocabulary, clearly pronouncing words like "shoes", "cracker", momma, dadda, and bye bye, as well as a few others.  

 WHen I ask him to "say momma" he ALWAYS just does a raspberry, when I ask him to "say dadda" he just goes "ah".   

 I'm not too concerned about his hearing, he does point when I ask him "where's daddy?  or Grandma? or Papa? or Kimber? (the dog).  He also dances and seems to be developing normally in other areas.

 

Anyone else's baby slow to start talking?   

 


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11-29-2012 at 2:48 PM
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DD has no words. She babbles. but she does not say mama or dada or anything else for that matter. I honestly can't believe anyone would expect a child to be talking at 10 months old.

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11-29-2012 at 3:24 PM
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DD is 10.5 months.  She says no discernible words.  She babbles up a storm and says dadadada and mamamama-- but doesn't understand what they mean.  (like, she's not calling us-- they are just easily pronounceable syllables)

I consider baby's first word to be when baby says a clearly identifiable word, like "cup" say, and is maybe pointing to a cup.  That to me means baby associated the word cup with an actual cup and is starting to understand language.

I think a lot of parents exaggerate and hear what they want to hear.

I am sure your LO is just fine, but if you are really concerned, bring it up to your ped.


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11-29-2012 at 4:32 PM
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It is just dadadadada moslty. Every now and then he throw a bone to me with a mama but thats mostly after he had a reallu bad night sleep. I wouldnt worry. Ds doesn't point at things when i say then so you are past us then
 
11-29-2012 at 4:33 PM
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Hi,

My son is 3 years old and not talking. It kinda runs in the family on my husbands side. Majority of the boys were slow to start talking. He does say some words, not many. He's good at saying syllables but it's putting the words together is what he has a hard time with. Don't stress too much about it. Like you said, he still responds to when you ask him things, same with my son. He watched a lot of Dora, Deigo, Mickey Mouse, all those Nick Jr and Disney Junior shows. My son would respond and interact with his older sister and peers his age. My son is now enrolled in preK, with a speech therapist and although it's only been 3 weeks that he's been going, I already see improvement. Just remember that EACH Child is different, they grow, develop, and reach their milestones at their own rate. Don't stress about it because it'll take a tole on you, trust me, been there, done that. You can work with him in trying to talk, just take time out of the day and practice a word, and keep doing it. But like I said, don't stress it, if he refuses, then let him go, because then it's gonna stress you out. Other than that, it'll take time, don't worry, you're not the only one out there that's going thru the same thing.

Hope this helps put some ease at mind :)

 
11-29-2012 at 6:26 PM
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DD has no words. She babbles. but she does not say mama or dada or anything else for that matter.

I honestly can't believe anyone would expect a child to be talking at 10 months old.


Seriously??? I don't expect my child to be talking, if he was, in fact, babbling I wouldn't be concerned. He's not babbling, he's not saying anything but Ah, while other kids his age are babbling. I read an article a while ago that said they should be babbling more at this age and he is not and that's why I was concerned... Even if he had a consonant in front of the ah like bah or dah or nah I wouldn't be concerned.

I was just looking for some feedback if anyone else had a baby that didn't say anything!

Thank you to the others who responded, I'm not too stressed about it at this point, just curious.

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11-29-2012 at 7:24 PM
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Here's the developmental milestone checklist for 9 months from the CDC - http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/milestones/milestones-9mo.html

If you're concerned, I would mention it at his next pedi appointment at 12 months. Children develop so differently that I wouldn't worry about it since you said his receptive skills are good and he can hear.

My one DD barely babbled as an infant. She didn't even try to talk as a toddler. Her first words were at 22 months and they were her pointing to and saying the letters of the alphabet. Her vocab now includes such words as promptly, impossible, and interesting :) Your son will develop at his own rate. As long as he is showing additional sounds in the next couple of months, I'd try not to sweat it.


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11-29-2012 at 10:28 PM
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If you're really concerned, talk to your pedi. 10 months is a little old to not be babbling BUT not outside the bounds of normal. Are there other milestones your child has hit early/on time? 

Kids pick what areas to focus on. Some focus on gross motor skills (crawling, pulling up, walking), some focus on fine motor skills (pressing buttons, manipulating toys, turning pages) and some focus on communication (babbling, words, etc.). They don't generally focus on all three equally, and usually focus on one or two and leave the others behind. They will generally catch up later.

For instance, my daughter has focussed on fine motor skills (manipulating things, grabbing small items, putting things in and out of other things, light switches, page turning) and communication (early babbler, has three words now) but has little to no interest in gross motor skills (sits up fine, but does not crawl, not even army crawl, does not pull herself up to sitting or standing, rarely if ever rolls over, etc). Checked with her doctor, was reassured that she will get there, it's just not what drives her right now.

Have you tried baby signs instead of working on verbal communication? That might help. It sounds like he's interacting just fine, so maybe bypassing the difficult work of getting lips and tongue and teeth to move together, signs might help him grasp the concept of words relating to items and actions.  


 
11-30-2012 at 12:28 AM
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11-30-2012 at 12:34 AM
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Thank you do much for this! He does excel in some areas, very good with fine motor skills, and has a great memory. He imitates movements, when he sees people dancing goofy on tv kids shows, he copies along with them, hands up, hands down, dances, etc. He also knows where mom's nose, eyes, mouth, and ears are when we ask him. He only needed to be shown a few times and catches on quickly.

Thank you for bringing up signs, that's a great idea and I think he'd be good at it. I'll have to look into it a little deeper, not sure if it would delay his speech further by going that route, or help him.

My husband was a late talker, and not sure if it's related, but he mixes words up a lot now.

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11-30-2012 at 5:34 AM
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Thank you for bringing up signs, that's a great idea and I think he'd be good at it. I'll have to look into it a little deeper, not sure if it would delay his speech further by going that route, or help him.


It will help him. I know it seems counterintuitive, but signing has been shown to help improve spoken vocabulary. If you're looking for a tv show, "Signing Time" with Rachel Coleman is absolutely the best one. Your library probably has some of the DVD's.

We started signing with DD1 at 6 months and found Signing Time when she was around 18 months. You always say the word as you sign it. DD1 knows tons of signs now and has a crazy spoken vocabulary. My BFF is a speech therapist and often comments on DD1's vocabulary.

I took ASL in college, so it's been fun for me to refresh my memory by signing with my DD's too. DD2 has just started signing "more" [mealtimes are a good place to start].

Signing is a great tool to use to be able to communicate with your LO before they're talking, and it really does help their oral communication as well.

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11-30-2012 at 10:40 AM
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Does your son have any teeth yet? I have heard that speech can depend on there being teeth present. Not sure if that is an OWT or not, but DD1 didn't have any teeth until almost a year old, and she wasn't really saying much. She got her point across, but it was irritating that some of the younger kids in her class said full words. My competitive nature got the better of me at the time. Now, DD1 doesn't shut up, and can count to ten in English, Spanish, French and Hebrew. She speaks in complete sentences, although she doesn't always say the words correctly. She has an incredible memory, and can recite to you what you read the night before in a book just from looking at the page. My brother didn't speak until he was about three, and although I like to tell him he is barely of average intelligence, he is quite smart, and I really wish he couldn't speak most of the time. Boys develop communications skills later than girls, and I am sure we would all agree, they lose those skills at about 12-13 anyway :)

Barring any physical abnormalities that would prevent him from babbling, I wouldn't worry about it until much later!

 


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11-30-2012 at 12:22 PM
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DD has no words. She babbles. but she does not say mama or dada or anything else for that matter. I honestly can't believe anyone would expect a child to be talking at 10 months old.
Seriously??? I don't expect my child to be talking, if he was, in fact, babbling I wouldn't be concerned. He's not babbling, he's not saying anything but Ah, while other kids his age are babbling. I read an article a while ago that said they should be babbling more at this age and he is not and that's why I was concerned... Even if he had a consonant in front of the ah like bah or dah or nah I wouldn't be concerned. I was just looking for some feedback if anyone else had a baby that didn't say anything! Thank you to the others who responded, I'm not too stressed about it at this point, just curious.

Yeah.. Seriously.  Sounded from your post that you expected at least a word or two out of her.  you made reference to your baby book when you mention that you were clearly pronouncing words like shoe and cracker, for example.  The point I was trying to make is that it's way to early to start worrying about it. Sorry if you took offense.

I'm going to add that DS was not babbeling so much at this age, either - every child is different and we can lose our minds comparing each other. 

 


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11-30-2012 at 12:47 PM
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KitKat83:

Hello! 

I'm kind of starting to worry a little bit.  My son is 11 months old now, and he doesn't say anything more than "Ah".   All of the babies here around his age are already saying mamama and dadada.  I'd feel better about it if I even got a "Bah" but I don't.  I looked in my baby book, and by 9-10 months I had quite an extensive vocabulary, clearly pronouncing words like "shoes", "cracker", momma, dadda, and bye bye, as well as a few others.  

 WHen I ask him to "say momma" he ALWAYS just does a raspberry, when I ask him to "say dadda" he just goes "ah".   

 I'm not too concerned about his hearing, he does point when I ask him "where's daddy?  or Grandma? or Papa? or Kimber? (the dog).  He also dances and seems to be developing normally in other areas.

 

Anyone else's baby slow to start talking?   

 

 

Sorry I call BS on this. There is no way a 9-10 month old is clearly pronouncing bi-syllabic words, such as cracker. 

 
11-30-2012 at 1:18 PM
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KitKat83:

Hello! 

I'm kind of starting to worry a little bit.  My son is 11 months old now, and he doesn't say anything more than "Ah".   All of the babies here around his age are already saying mamama and dadada.  I'd feel better about it if I even got a "Bah" but I don't.  I looked in my baby book, and by 9-10 months I had quite an extensive vocabulary, clearly pronouncing words like "shoes", "cracker", momma, dadda, and bye bye, as well as a few others.  

 WHen I ask him to "say momma" he ALWAYS just does a raspberry, when I ask him to "say dadda" he just goes "ah".   

 I'm not too concerned about his hearing, he does point when I ask him "where's daddy?  or Grandma? or Papa? or Kimber? (the dog).  He also dances and seems to be developing normally in other areas.

 

Anyone else's baby slow to start talking?   

 

 

 

Sorry I call BS on this. There is no way a 9-10 month old is clearly pronouncing bi-syllabic words, such as cracker. 

Well, I swear that DD1 said "onge ob" for sponge bob while watching the show. She was 8 months old. She didn't say very much after that until one. Could have been a one off, but I will swear in a court of law that she said it.


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11-30-2012 at 1:41 PM
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Cracker was my first word, and I said it a lot.  Call BS if you want, I don't care, but my mom always told me everyone found it pretty funny that my first word was cracker, and it wasn't fluke, when asked to say it, I'd say it right back at them.  

 


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11-30-2012 at 4:49 PM
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KitKat83:

Cracker was my first word, and I said it a lot.  Call BS if you want, I don't care, but my mom always told me everyone found it pretty funny that my first word was cracker, and it wasn't fluke, when asked to say it, I'd say it right back at them.  

 

I'm not personally calling BS on "cracker".  But just don't necesarily expect that she will also say cracker, shoe, ect as early as you did.


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11-30-2012 at 5:19 PM
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I wasn't referring to your post here, someone else called bs on it. I don't expect him to say the things I said at his age. If you actually read the post, which I know that you didn't, as I am talking about my son, and in both of your replies you say "her" and "she", you would also see that I would have been satisfied with a simple "bah" or "dah".

There always has to be some one in these forums who assumes everyone is an idiot.

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Every baby is different and I know that first hand since I have twins. I cant help but compare them sometime but i've learned they both get things at their own pace. My one daughter babbles ALL THE TIME saying "mama" "dada" "baba" and my other daughter has said "dada" but so rarely....she mostly just coos and ahhs. I have had them both evaluated and the funny think is my daughter that talks more is the one getting the speech therapy (but for feeding issues) not the one that doesn't. So I wouldnt' worry too much! Maybe just address it with your pedi at her year check up to be sure.


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I wouldn't worry... All babies are different. If you are worried talk to your Dr.  I'm sure it is nothing to stress over.

As for what babies can say and when.  My mom wrote it down in my baby book and all living family members confirm that I could say Bruiser (only definately sounded like boozer) at 6 mos.  That was our dog.  My mom was home with me all day, and talked to me all day like an adult.  There was no baby talk, because we lived in a place where she knew no one.  So, she talked to me while dad was at work all day.  So it is possible.  Not the norm, i'm sure, but it can happen.

FWIW my DD babbles but didn't start with mama until she was 9 mos, and she just started associating mama, and dada, with DH and I in the past week or so. 


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KitKat83:
I wasn't referring to your post here, someone else called bs on it. I don't expect him to say the things I said at his age. If you actually read the post, which I know that you didn't, as I am talking about my son, and in both of your replies you say "her" and "she", you would also see that I would have been satisfied with a simple "bah" or "dah". There always has to be some one in these forums who assumes everyone is an idiot.

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Hello! 

I'm kind of starting to worry a little bit.  My son is 11 months old now, and he doesn't say anything more than "Ah".   All of the babies here around his age are already saying mamama and dadada.  I'd feel better about it if I even got a "Bah" but I don't.  I looked in my baby book, and by 9-10 months I had quite an extensive vocabulary, clearly pronouncing words like "shoes", "cracker", momma, dadda, and bye bye, as well as a few others.  

 WHen I ask him to "say momma" he ALWAYS just does a raspberry, when I ask him to "say dadda" he just goes "ah".   

 I'm not too concerned about his hearing, he does point when I ask him "where's daddy?  or Grandma? or Papa? or Kimber? (the dog).  He also dances and seems to be developing normally in other areas.

 

Anyone else's baby slow to start talking?   

 

 

Sorry I call BS on this. There is no way a 9-10 month old is clearly pronouncing bi-syllabic words, such as cracker. 

 You can call BS on this all you want but it is possible.  My DD is 10.5 months and had said not only a few multi-syllabic words, but has also said two different two word phrases, like 'Right there'.  This was done in the presence of my son's speech therapist who verified that it is possible and that I wasn't just imaging it.  She called the speech therapist by name 'Candace' right after the therapist referred to herself by name.  However, my DD has an advantage because she's been there for my son's speech therapy since she was born, which can lead to early talking, or as the speech therapist said, 'a two for one deal.'  I'm just saying it is possible.

OP, my son was very delayed in speaking.  So, trust me when I tell you not to worry.  It's not unusual for some kids to take a little longer to start speaking.  Is your DS interacting normally?  Making other noises with you, like growling or squeaking?  Does your DS turn his head to noises?  The first thing they'd check is hearing. You might bring it up at your next appointment just for piece of mind, but you have plenty of time before this becomes anything to even spend time worrying about.  Feel free to PM if you want or need more reassurance. :)


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