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12-01-2012 at 8:10 PM
sugar212
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I am so stuck on a name but DH is not on board anymore

If we have another girl, I have said since just after our first was born, I want to name her Myla. DH was totally on board with this 2 1/2 years ago...but now he is not. I guess we have ~ 29 weeks (and one day) to pick a name, and who knows, we might not even have another girl. 

 

ok, vent over.  

 
12-01-2012 at 8:17 PM
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It is his kid too. You guys will have to come to a compromise. Easier said than done, I know. I had to give up a few names I really liked and he did too. You have to meet in the middle!

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12-01-2012 at 9:03 PM
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I wouldn't worry about it now. At this point you don't even know if you're having another girl, so why get upset because after all you might be having a boy. You have plenty of time to figure out names, GL!

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12-01-2012 at 9:06 PM
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What kind of names does he like? What about similar sounding names like Mila (me-lah), Isla (eye-lah), or Mia?

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12-01-2012 at 9:09 PM
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I  can sympathize.  My DH will get stuck on a name and entertain nothing else for years.  And then I'll finally come around to it.  Then we agree to not talk names (together- I think about names non-stop) until we're pregnant.  And then because a few years lapse, he's changed his mind.  This happened a few times with IF and then just 2 years between our son and now.

And he thinks I'm the one who keeps changing the list!


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12-01-2012 at 10:39 PM
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Eh, he may have liked it in the past and now his tastes have changed. Not a big deal, I am sure you will both find a name you love!

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12-01-2012 at 10:40 PM
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Compromise = stamosyla 
 
12-02-2012 at 12:25 AM
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Manderlin923:
What kind of names does he like? What about similar sounding names like Mila (me-lah), Isla (eye-lah), or Mia?

This - I was thinking Mila or Mya/Myah? 


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12-02-2012 at 1:18 AM
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What about Maia?

 
12-02-2012 at 8:03 AM
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If we have a girl, she'll be Mayna (could also be spelled Meina/Meyna/Meynah/Maynah)

Has good meanings in German, Dutch, Sanskrit, Arabic and Greek.

Seems to also align to the kind of name your looking for....

 
12-02-2012 at 9:24 AM
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He likes all sorts of names, which is good. Mostly very common/traditional names, then he will throw a more unique name out there. He chose our daughter's name, Shayla. I like names very similar to Shayla, more modern names. I think this time around we are just going to wait until we know the sex to really start talking names. 

 

 
12-02-2012 at 11:02 AM
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Ugh.  I know how you feel.  I had a name picked out for a little girl since I was 5 years old.  DH doesn't like it, so no dice.  It's a sucky feeling, but all the PPs are correct.  Your LO is his kid, he needs to like the name.

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12-02-2012 at 12:19 PM
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You can't blame him for changing his mind. DH and I had a girl name and shortly after our son was born when we were talking about #2 that I wasn't sold on our girl name anymore. It happens, tastes change. Revisit it maybe after you find out the sex. Maybe he thinks there is a better name out there.  Both take some time looking for other names, if BOTH of you agree to Myla still then great. If at any point in time he outwardly says no, the you will have to move on.


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