I wish people would just not say anything at all.
At 28 weeks, I had gained 22 lbs, which I thought was a WHOLE LOT, and yet I have people all the time telling me how small I look and they can't believe how far along I actually am. I want to be like, you don't think I look different than when I was 22 LBS lighter?!?!
ALSO - I can't stand how the very next thing out of their mouth is that it must be a boy. Because if it was a girl I would be big and swollen.
My husband and I thought it would be less stressful not to know boy or girl and just wait to find out, but I did not realize that that would mean people would tell me what they thought for the next 20 weeks. I've started just saying, "well, i just hope it's one or the other."
Thanks for letting me pile on to your vent! People have never annoyed me so much in my life!