I'm going to be totally blunt here because I have a feeling someone else is going to come by and say the same things.
You had a SA with no known issues, right? And you really, really want to get pregnant your first cycle of trying, right? I know this is easier said than done, but it might be a good idea to try and calm down a little. For your own sanity, really. You can pop a billion pills and prop your hips up until your boobs smack you in the face, drink fifteen kinds of teas to get the lady juices flowing and your SO can abstain until his balls turn blue but, really, don't. Get a thermometer and a FF account, read the tutorials and give charting a go when you feel ready. On the main page of this board there is a link up top for the newbies, you might want to check that out.
I'm saying this in the nicest way possible, you haven't even started yet and you are putting so much pressure on yourself that you might end up going crazy before you even POAS.