I am currently in the same boat. My dh needs to be off for our ER tomorrow and I've been running through how to get there. I thought I would be sad or bitchy about it- especially given my hormone levels, but I'm ok with it. He is off today so I can take him for his testicular aspiration which was kinda rough for him to get off. Sometimes timing just stinks. My sis will be sleeping over tonight so we can leave at 5am for ER and dh will pick me up from grad school that night. Even I am either crazy or stubborn, but I refuse to put off giving a presentation for ER.
I do want hubby to be there for ET- we leave so happy and hopeful. (And even I warned my professor that I won't be in class that day)
If he can't be there- the pictures truly do say everything. Goodluck to you!