What is her bottle schedule now? We recently dropped a bottle so now he gets bottles at 6 am, 10 am, 2 pm and 6:30 pm. At first, I was doing 8 ounces bottles, but he's been consistently leaving 2-3 ounces in each bottle.
I was at the pedi yesterday for a different issue (double ear infection ) but I did ask him about the feeding transition. We have been doing sippy's of whole milk at lunch and dinner. He mentioned that as I push more solids, his intake of formula will decrease. The goal is that at age 1, he's eating/drinking like the rest of us. So breakfast, lunch, dinner and two snacks in between. He will get a sippy of milk at each meal/snack and can have as much as he wants during the day. He hates juice and water (wtf?) so for now we're just sticking to the whole milk. DS is nearing this schedule, and his formula intake is decreasing substantially.
I've also started mixing small amounts of whole milk into his bottles, so he gets used to the taste. Over the next few weeks, I'll up the amount of whole milk until we're at all whole milk by the time he's 1 in January.